Sly Bald Guys Forum
Discussions About Being Bald => 30 Day Rule / Beginners Section => Topic started by: xKevoBx on August 04, 2010, 05:35:00 PM
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Hey everyone,
I'm Kevin and I just joined this community. I have a full head of hair, but I've always wanted to shave my head just to see what it feels like. However, that was not enough to convince me to go sly.
I told people I wanted to shave my head and they are like, you have such a pretty head of hair, why would you want to do that!? I do have to admit my hair is pretty cool since its color changes when sun is added. So there were lots of people against me on this topic. Well I moved to Boston from Missouri, and I'm trying to start my life as an adult (at 24). Well in Boston, my roommates had pulled the last straw by trying to tell me how my career should go, how I should wear my hair, that I was fat (I'm only 135 lbs), and what facial hair I should have (I live to stay clean shaven and they told me I needed to keep the scruff). I was tired of my life being out of control because I don't want other people being me, i need to be me. Also, like alot of guys here, I do suffer from that dermatitis thing. I've gone and dismissed like 3 or 4 dermatologists cause they couldn't stop the itchy bumps. I felt like the dermatologists treated me like they didn't believe me. They just don't have a cure for it, and this stuff gets to be a pain in the summer cause it's humid.
I was lurking on the boards and saw that alot of guys here overcome this problem. I know this from experience because my acne clears up after I shave my face because all the gunk isn't trapped by the hairs, and it's easier to clean the scalp where the problem hides. I didn't realize it until I started cleaning my head with astringent how nasty my scalp was with hair so now I understand what you guys mean by 'clean'. I don't care if I look like a spotted leopard for a while, I just want to be rid of the burning and itching. I'm going to face this problem like a man, some may call this reckless but I didn't care.
So I made an appointment at the barber to have a head shave (this way I felt like I couldn't chicken out). I told some of my friends about my plans for the shave and one friend of mine was like, "sure I'll clip your hair down with no guard". So we do that, and he tells me that white guys look uncool with shaved heads. I'm gay and I've been with alot of sexy bald gays, and no they weren't bears. They're all over the gay clubs here so I felt like that was rubbish. So he clips my hair down with no guard, hair flying everywhere (I hadn't gotten a haircut since May). Then it was done and I was pleased.
However, I wanted to be completely shaved because the prickly feeling I found to be unpleasant, so I went ahead and followed up with my appointment. The Barberette (?) was really knowledgeable about shaved heads, and suggested some of things you guys posted on this site. So at the end of it, I'm completely hairless on top and thrilled. I always expected a shaved head to feel all stubbly, and it feels as smoothe and light. Also, the itching has halted though there are red spots still. I love the way the wind feels on my head, and I can't stop rubbing my head.
Thank you Sly Bald Guys for encouraging me to take the leap, I feel more like myself again, and i know that sounds very strange. Even though I had a full head of hair, it's nice to be liberated from it! The smooth soft feeling is fantastic!
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Welcome to the Forum Kevin!
Way to take control of your life... don't listen to what others think YOUR life should be. You look great shaved!!!
One word for you.............................. SUNSCREEN!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thanks alot! It means alot to me. yeah I know I need sunscreen, I think I'm going to get some sun tomorrow morning to tan up that nogin. I actually expected it to look much worse and pale! I burn so badly! Last summer I looked like a lobster and peeled like a lizard! I didn't leave the house for three weeks! thanks for the encouragement, I hope I make it through the 30 days.
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Welcome, it looks great!
I've never had it done, but I hear a barber shave doesn't get quite as smooth as when you do it yourself. Next step: get a quality shaving cream/soap/gel and do it yourself! Much cheaper and smoother.
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Thanks for the advice Bill, I was planning on doing the barber shave for the first time, and then trying to do it on my own once my skin heals up. It's funny though, because I saw she missed a few spots cause I can see she missed some fine hairs. I'd love to be even smoother than I already am right now so I'll try shaving my own head! I have the Nivea (sp?) ready and I bought some brand new razors for my new hairstyle.
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Lookin' good Kevin! O0
Yeah, definitely get some sunscreen! ;)
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Thank you Sarg! You're looking good yourself :) yeah, I need to get some sunscreen and tan that noggin then I'll look much even more attractive!
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Welcome! There's tons of advice on here for you....and it is good advice! Going SLY was one of the greatest things I have ever done for myself. Now, enjoy trying all the different products for folks like us--it is rather fun!
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Thank you for the warm welcome :) This is such a warm community, I'm honored to be one of the Sly guys. It's great being Sly
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Looking good there, xKevoBx. Glad you could join us! O0
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Welcome Kev, good to have you. You made the right choice for sure. Hang in there, you'll make it through the thirty days.
Stay with it and remember, you do it for you, no one else. O0
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Looks good on you! Welcome to the site......now beware the "shave shopping" itch!! :D
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Another 'welcome' here: looks great. hope you stick around. You're right: this is a great place to be! O0
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Thanks everyone for the encouragement! I ended up shaving it this morning and I didn't get one knick at all! I was pretty stoked that I didn't tear my head apart with the razor. I just used light strokes and I took my time. Bill you are right, you get a much closer shave if you do it yourself! Water feels really cool on your head after shaving, that's all I have to say.
I think I've bought enough shaving stuff for now. I'm pretty happy with my Mach 3 and my Nivea shaving cream for now.
I did have to shave my face though because I have a job interview today for a waitstaff/host position and I thought I looked too intimidating with the beard and the shaved head.
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Good move. Remember, shaving exposes your scalp to the sun--and the sun in Boston can be bright. So I suggest two things, first and foremost--sunscreen, several good ones, Banana Boat dry spray work, spf 35 is good, dry, doesn't sting going on. One can lasts a long time. Second, add an astringent--cheap, either hydrogen peroxide or witch hazel, cheap effective. Apply with a cotton pad or a kleenex, just be sure to keep that dome clean and it will stay clear.
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Sunscreen check, I don't want to peel and then have a freckly scalp. I'm using SPF 55, do you think that's too strong of a sunscreen? Does Sea Breeze work well as an astringent? I saw people had used it on other boards
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Sunscreen check, I don't want to peel and then have a freckly scalp. I'm using SPF 55, do you think that's too strong of a sunscreen? Does Sea Breeze work well as an astringent? I saw people had used it on other boards
No problem, if it feels good that will work fine--I really like the ones that don't go on greasy or become greasy--it's a personal thing. Although I do like shine! My wife isn't 100% in support to put it mildly, but she wants me to wear sunscreen so sometimes just to mess with her I use a spray that really puts on a powerful gleam, sparkling, and I get a kick out of her response! >:D Generally, I use something that's not quite so shiney, but I'll sacrifice shine for sun protection if I'm going to be in the sun. I really haven't found a hat that feels all that great in the summer, so it means I really pay attention to the sunscreen.
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My sunblock is a powdery-ish kind. My skin is greasy to begin with (or else i wouldn't have had all the gunk in my hair) so I've always used the kind that isn't as greasy. I don't have a husband to tell me if I should be shiney or not, so I'll do what I like for now. Right now I'm not really too concerned with how shiney my head is.
The bad thing is that it's cloudy in Boston today so I'll stay pale another day, and the worst part is I have a date tonight who is very handsome. He's already seen pictures of me shaved so I don't think the paleness is the problem. I think it's funny I'm more worried about being pale than bald though.
The good thing is, you guys weren't lying about how being Sly can help with the bumps. My head is already looking much better after using the Sea Breeze astringent. With no hair there, I can take care of it, and there's no hair to absorb the gunk in there. My head doesn't feel itchy anymore, and I feel so much more comfortable shaved.
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Congratulation on tking the leap.
I am the same way, still have hair, but love the shaved feel and look.
My Nickname is Sometimer, but I am more like allthetimer, or mostofthetimer now. ;-)
Greatings
Sometimer
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SaintC mentions one of the top rated sunscreens according to consumer reports. Read more here:
http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,593514,00.html
I picked some up (and 8 and an 85) at walgreens
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Thanks for the help! Let me know if there's anything else that looks good to use on the head.
Anyone have any good ideas how to tan this pale head of mine? Any threads I'm missing?
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I see lots of people mentioning Jergens Natural Glow lotion. That and a few days out in the sun without a hat should do you well.
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Thank you TomKat! I think I've already got the sun screen I need for right now. I may pick up some of the banana boat dry stuff if I pass by a Wal Greens or something. Like I said, today is pretty cloudy in Boston so I don't really need it. I think it's cool we went
I'm really loving the attention I'm getting with my shaved head. Like when I went for a job interview several people kept on asking me if I needed to be helped. I'm a leo so I'm glad to have more presence!
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I see lots of people mentioning Jergens Natural Glow lotion. That and a few days out in the sun without a hat should do you well.
I'm using that as well, along with CVS Healing Lotion. It's the only one I've found that works well on the face and keeps the skin under the goatee from flaking.
http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/catalog/shop_product_detail.jsp?filterBy=&skuId=689303&productId=689303&navAction=jump&navCount=3 (http://www.cvs.com/CVSApp/catalog/shop_product_detail.jsp?filterBy=&skuId=689303&productId=689303&navAction=jump&navCount=3)
I also use Bald Guys Moisture Gel right after shaving.
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Wow the skin under your goatee flakes? I tried doing facial hair but it doesn't look like me. It looks too masculine for me I guess, and it always itches when my facial hair grows out. I was afraid that my head was going to itch when my hair grows back (or at least attempt to ;).