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Confidence and Success => Relationships/Dating => Topic started by: HotCajun on March 27, 2007, 10:41:42 PM
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I've been reading some of the posts in this section and I just wanted to throw my two cents in. I know a lot of guys that have awesome personalities and they never let it shine when meeting new people. Physical attraction is important, but its not everything. Confidence is such a huge factor when meeting someone....it says so much about a person. If you don't believe in yourself, why should I? Being a sly I'm sure most of you aren't lacking any confidence! So if there is a girl that you've been eyeing, walk up to her and talk to her! What's the worst that could happen? She could blow you off? She is one in a million and she wasn't good enough for you anyway, if she is going to dismiss you that quickly! The more you do it, the easier it gets (like riding a bike)!
Wishing you all the happiness in the world!
Sara
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Very well said!!
I have proven this theory to be true. And, you've seen my pics...I'm not the best looking dude in the world or even close. It's a numbers "game" in that you never know if it's the 1st, 5th, or 120th girl that you talk to that is going to end up being "the one." But, if you never get past the first one, you'll never get to the 120th.
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The only problem is when the girl is a hot as you Sara, some of us guys get their tang toungled... ah, I mean their tongue tangled! :*))
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The only problem is when the girl is a hot as you Sara, some of us guys get their tang toungled... ah, I mean their tongue tangled! :*))
And that's the sweetest part, fulmbling through it :*)) :-[
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The only problem is when the girl is a hot as you Sara, some of us guys get their tang toungled... ah, I mean their tongue tangled! :*))
And that's the sweetest part, fulmbling through it :*)) :-[
I always had that problem when I was single......I sounded like Porky Pig.
"Would you like to d-d-d-d-d-d-d.......wanna boogie?"
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Very well said!!
I have proven this theory to be true. And, you've seen my pics...I'm not the best looking dude in the world or even close. It's a numbers "game" in that you never know if it's the 1st, 5th, or 120th girl that you talk to that is going to end up being "the one." But, if you never get past the first one, you'll never get to the 120th.
Then you lucked out bro, because you definitely married up! Your wife is a nice looking gal. What number was she in your game? ;D
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What number was she in your game? ;D
Thanks schro! She was about 13968, but who's counting? ;D Actually, I don't know what number she was, but there were a lot of dates along the way and about 100 times more rejections, especially when I lived in L.A.
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What number was she in your game? ;D
Thanks schro! She was about 13968, but who's counting? ;D Actually, I don't know what number she was, but there were a lot of dates along the way and about 100 times more rejections, especially when I lived in L.A.
But she's Numero Uno now, right?
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That is correct senor!
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sara, you are right. what is the worst that can happen? getting told no, or meeting ANASTASIA? you know what i mean. ha ha ha should i tell the boys what you did to that poor bastard at that bar?
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sara, you are right. what is the worst that can happen? getting told no, or meeting ANASTASIA? you know what i mean. ha ha ha should i tell the boys what you did to that poor bastard at that bar?
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What can I say....yes I admit there are times that I can be shallow, (I've already told you I'm allergic to stupid) but for the most part, I try and give everyone the benefit of a doubt! Some people just walk in screaming it :px
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sara, you are right. what is the worst that can happen? getting told no, or meeting ANASTASIA? you know what i mean. ha ha ha should i tell the boys what you did to that poor bastard at that bar?
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What can I say....yes I admit there are times that I can be shallow, (I've already told you I'm allergic to stupid) but for the most part, I try and give everyone the benefit of a doubt! Some people just walk in screaming it :px
Scream... Scream... :D
I definately agree with you there, but there is a difference between inteligence and skills with the ladies. You can have one of the sharpest guys on the planet be one of the most tong tied, unsocial, unskilled members of society [a complete NERD! in the bad sense of the word], and then you find guys like myself for instance, I might not be the sharpest tool in the shed, but I am definately smooth like Jelly from the Jar, Baby! And let me just say, its always nice to find Beauties like yourself who further justify my "research"...
Just Call me Prof. Clean 8)
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sara, you are right. what is the worst that can happen? getting told no, or meeting ANASTASIA? you know what i mean. ha ha ha should i tell the boys what you did to that poor bastard at that bar?
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What can I say....yes I admit there are times that I can be shallow, (I've already told you I'm allergic to stupid) but for the most part, I try and give everyone the benefit of a doubt! Some people just walk in screaming it :px
Scream... Scream... :D
I definately agree with you there, but there is a difference between inteligence and skills with the ladies. You can have one of the sharpest guys on the planet be one of the most tong tied, unsocial, unskilled members of society [a complete NERD! in the bad sense of the word], and then you find guys like myself for instance, I might not be the sharpest tool in the shed, but I am definately smooth like Jelly from the Jar, Baby! And let me just say, its always nice to find Beauties like yourself who further justify my "research"...
Just Call me Prof. Clean 8)
There is a BIG difference between Nerd and Stupid!!!
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No doubt there.
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ok guys, here goes the story of anastasia.
we are sitting in this little bar and rob gets up to go pee. this little wormy dude with a USMC t-shirt and a mohawk (go figure) he looks at sara and tries to speak. before this dude can even finish the first word she snaps a real blunt "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" and this dude fumbles the ball. BAD. but he tries again and once more is told "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" by this time i wanna laugh at him or knock him out. not sure which. but he mumbles something about her resembling someone and she just gives him a " go away dummy " look. then rob gets back and we tell him about it so we could all laugh together. then i got up to get another round and the BIG BALD BOUNCER/manager dude tells me"I almost feel sorry for guy. she burnt the hell out of him" to which i just laughed and went back to the table laughing. that was funny when i saw the look on the little dudes face.
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ok guys, here goes the story of anastasia.
we are sitting in this little bar and rob gets up to go pee. this little wormy dude with a USMC t-shirt and a mohawk (go figure) he looks at sara and tries to speak. before this dude can even finish the first word she snaps a real blunt "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" and this dude fumbles the ball. BAD. but he tries again and once more is told "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" by this time i wanna laugh at him or knock him out. not sure which. but he mumbles something about her resembling someone and she just gives him a " go away dummy " look. then rob gets back and we tell him about it so we could all laugh together. then i got up to get another round and the BIG BALD BOUNCER/manager dude tells me"I almost feel sorry for guy. she burnt the hell out of him" to which i just laughed and went back to the table laughing. that was funny when i saw the look on the little dudes face.
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ok guys, here goes the story of anastasia.
we are sitting in this little bar and rob gets up to go pee. this little wormy dude with a USMC t-shirt and a mohawk (go figure) he looks at sara and tries to speak. before this dude can even finish the first word she snaps a real blunt "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" and this dude fumbles the ball. BAD. but he tries again and once more is told "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" by this time i wanna laugh at him or knock him out. not sure which. but he mumbles something about her resembling someone and she just gives him a " go away dummy " look. then rob gets back and we tell him about it so we could all laugh together. then i got up to get another round and the BIG BALD BOUNCER/manager dude tells me"I almost feel sorry for guy. she burnt the hell out of him" to which i just laughed and went back to the table laughing. that was funny when i saw the look on the little dudes face.
FYI.....There was NO WAY this dude was in the military...he totally picked that shirt up from somewhere else!!! THAT is why I blew him off....I have a family full of men who have served this country and for a poser to sport that shirt just kinda erked me, then he had the audacity to try and hit on me!!! I had to shut him down!
Oh, and he had waaaaaaayyyy tooo much hair for me ;)
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HotCajun, you are wise beyond your years! And thanks for sticking up for our servicemen and women O0
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HotCajun, you are wise beyond your years! And thanks for sticking up for our servicemen and women O0
I wouldn't have it any other way O:O :@`
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ok guys, here goes the story of anastasia.
we are sitting in this little bar and rob gets up to go pee. this little wormy dude with a USMC t-shirt and a mohawk (go figure) he looks at sara and tries to speak. before this dude can even finish the first word she snaps a real blunt "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" and this dude fumbles the ball. BAD. but he tries again and once more is told "YOU DON'T KNOW ME" by this time i wanna laugh at him or knock him out. not sure which. but he mumbles something about her resembling someone and she just gives him a " go away dummy " look. then rob gets back and we tell him about it so we could all laugh together. then i got up to get another round and the BIG BALD BOUNCER/manager dude tells me"I almost feel sorry for guy. she burnt the hell out of him" to which i just laughed and went back to the table laughing. that was funny when i saw the look on the little dudes face.
FYI.....There was NO WAY this dude was in the military...he totally picked that shirt up from somewhere else!!! THAT is why I blew him off....I have a family full of men who have served this country and for a poser to sport that shirt just kinda erked me, then he had the audacity to try and hit on me!!! I had to shut him down!
Oh, and he had waaaaaaayyyy tooo much hair for me ;)
Dude, Big Props. People pose as Service men because its one of the easiest uniforms to immatate... A "Marine" Green T-Shirt, some Camo Cargos and a pair of boots and you've got the look. The one thing all the posers don't understand, REAL MEN FILL THOSE UNIFORMS WITH CONFIDENCE, PRIDE FOR THEIR COUNTRY, AND A ORA THAT DEMANDS RESPECT, IN TURN ATTRACTING EVERY WOMAN WITHIN A 50 BAR RADIUS. Posers can kiss my ass, GET A LIFE/PERSONA OF YOUR OWN.
And off topic: This is what knowing your Game can do, Two New Digits today at lunch, just because one of them was attractive and I felt my Slyness kickin' in... $#!zzle
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Mr Clean...you live in one of the holy lands for women. Austin, Tempe/Scottsdale, and San Diego are the top 3 in my book. I loved living there right after college.
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Tell you the truth, I am more a Pacific North West fan when it comes to the girls myself... Down here there are a lot of them that are HOTT, but there are not to many that are really Beautiful. Example: Jewel, HotCajun, Pink, & Mandy Moore would be considered Beautiful in my book, just higher all around quality... Whereas Christina Agulara, Carmen Electra, and ofcourse Pre-KFed Britney were all just HOTT, Fun to party with, not so much to hook up long term with.
There are definatly alot of HOTT Girls here, not to many though are all that Beautiful, thats why when the opportunity presents itself I jump on my Game and I go for it like a Hungery Dog! `dr**l
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It's funny you say that. My buddy who lived in Phoenix at the same time I did said the same thing.
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My mecca for women was the East Coast... 'nuff said!
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So you dated a lot of Muslims, Rob?
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So you dated a lot of Muslims, Rob?
HA... no!
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I was always shy approaching someone I didn't know. Bouncing the bar in a college town helped me get over that. Everyone wants to be your best friend then!
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and a mohawk (go figure)
Hey now! I used to have a mohawk, I resent that!
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Wow ya say ya want to blend in. LOL.
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My mecca for women was the East Coast... 'nuff said!
I feel you there, But I have to put in a word for the women of the Pacific North West...
You can tell I am a rather large Oregon "Beavers" Fan ;)
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My mecca for women was the East Coast... 'nuff said!
I feel you there, But I have to put in a word for the women of the Pacific North West...
You can tell I am a rather large Oregon "Beavers" Fan ;)
You like large Beavers? ;)
You got a "Bat for Fat", Mr. Clean? :*))
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My mecca for women was the East Coast... 'nuff said!
I feel you there, But I have to put in a word for the women of the Pacific North West...
You can tell I am a rather large Oregon "Beavers" Fan ;)
You like large Beavers? ;)
You got a "Bat for Fat", Mr. Clean? :*))
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Leave it to Schro to say what everybody is thinking.... :*))
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I speak for the people. d5c*
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My mecca for women was the East Coast... 'nuff said!
I feel you there, But I have to put in a word for the women of the Pacific North West...
You can tell I am a rather large Oregon "Beavers" Fan ;)
You like large Beavers? ;)
You got a "Bat for Fat", Mr. Clean? :*))
All I am going to say in my defense is Big Girls Need Love Too, Just a little more than most :D ^-^
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Oh, I never had a problem approaching any woman... :-*
My secret??? ::)
I always carry a hanky... O0
and a bottle of Chloroform!!! d#~
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Oh, I never had a problem approaching any woman... :-*
My secret??? ::)
I always carry a hanky... O0
and a bottle of Chloroform!!! d#~
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Oh, I never had a problem approaching any woman... :-*
My secret??? ::)
I always carry a hanky... O0
and a bottle of Chloroform!!! d#~
:px l*v3
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Oh, I never had a problem approaching any woman... :-*
My secret??? ::)
I always carry a hanky... O0
and a bottle of Chloroform!!! d#~
hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha......me too!!! :px
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Oh, I never had a problem approaching any woman... :-*
My secret??? ::)
I always carry a hanky... O0
and a bottle of Chloroform!!! d#~
hahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaahahaha......me too!!! :px
The hanky or the Chloroform? `dr**l
LOL!!!
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Well the Chloroform of course...guys hate seeing women cry....and I really struggle doing it!!! :*))
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Well sometimes(most times) it isnt that easy to approach women
1/ they are in a group of friends
2/ they look like they will only consider you if your a celebrity
3/ sometimes I just dont feel like it
I do prefer meeting women through friends, easier to talk to them!!!
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Well sometimes(most times) it isnt that easy to approach women
1/ they are in a group of friends
2/ they look like they will only consider you if your a celebrity
3/ sometimes I just dont feel like it
I do prefer meeting women through friends, easier to talk to them!!!
1 - With a group of friends is the best time to meet them. If the friends like you, you're golden! Plus, you're less threatening when you interact with the group versus just them.
2 - Get in your mind that you are the celebrity that they want to meet. Be interesting and they'll want to meet you.
3 - I hear ya on that, it can be tiring sometimes.
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easier said than done, but it is better to stay on the positive O0
By the way I like your pic Tyler. Looks very sly
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easier said than done, but it is better to stay on the positive O0
By the way I like your pic Tyler. Looks very sly
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Yes, like everything it is easier said than done.
Thanks for the compliment on the pic!!
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catch her looking, smile and ignore her ass. always worked for me. not sure why but it did. maybe one of the ladies can answer that.
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catch her looking, smile and ignore her ass. always worked for me. not sure why but it did. maybe one of the ladies can answer that.
Yes it is a mystery Paul. ;D An unsolved mystery.
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I follow the Shotgun/Sniper's Bullet Method: I put myself out there, and approach a good amount of the ladies, making myself available to everyone, basically spreading myself out amoung them like taking a shot with a 12 Guage ShotGun... Then when one is feelin' me, I switch up the game, and I pick up the Snipers' Rifle, One Shot & One Kill!
Method to my Madness :px: While there might be a little collateral Damage, I still end up with a trophy strapped to the hood of my truck... Or a little less criptic, I still end up with a Trophy tied down tighly to my HeadBoard.
Here's to Wabbit Season [Bad Fudd Impression]... hahahahahaha!
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Also... it's a lot easier if you don't try to approach the ones that are running away!
WHAT? :*))
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I don't approach women, they approach me :*)) :*)) :*))
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I don't approach women, they approach me :*)) :*)) :*))
amen brother. i have met more women just hanging with my buddies shooting pool than is allowed by law. just worked for me most of the time.
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Ok, I just read through this whole post and was quite entertained. But since so many replies, I think the original post needs to be brought out again.
So if there is a girl that you've been eyeing, walk up to her and talk to her! What's the worst that could happen? She could blow you off?
Sara
Yes Indeed Sara, yes indeed! >:D
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catch her looking, smile and ignore her ass. always worked for me. not sure why but it did. maybe one of the ladies can answer that.
Women want what they can't have, just like men!!!
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Women want what they can't have, just like men!!!
Sara you hit the nail right on the head, no pun intended... but its true....... O:O
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catch her looking, smile and ignore her ass. always worked for me. not sure why but it did. maybe one of the ladies can answer that.
Women want what they can't have, just like men!!!
thats the way it seems to work for me too P
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Also... it's a lot easier if you don't try to approach the ones that are running away!
WHAT? :*))
I almost fell out my chair I laughed so hard!! :*))
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Sara will you marry me? (I'm very good looking)
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Sara will you marry me? (I'm very good looking)
Now that a good opening move. :o
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My problem isn't actually building up to approach girls. My problem is that when I do build up the courage to approach the girls, I have no idea what to say and usually leave with no number or anything. Either that, or I'm too scared to actually make my move and the relationship becomes doomed to face eternity in the "just friends" category.
What should I say to actually get a date when I meet a girl? Now that I look a bit less of a creeper, I might actually have a chance, but I've only had this look for a day now, so I don't know what my range of potential is.
So the question is: Alright, I approached her, I'm talking to her, then what?
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Use your comedy techniques.
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Use your comedy techniques.
Ditto. Or just ask questions. Women love to talk about themselves. Ask them interesting questions.
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Catch their eye, give them a smile, leave them alone and they come to you!
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Catch their eye, give them a smile, leave them alone and they come to you!
I can agree with that to a certain extent. But I've heard girls say, "i was looking at him all night, but he never approached me!" Different tactics work on different people i guess.
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It is about being yourself, being confident and showing interest in the woman. Using humor can be a great way to break the ice. You must do what is comfortable for you and maybe not what someone else does.