Sly Bald Guys Forum
Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: plong on September 20, 2009, 06:08:17 PM
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Well, I'm 22, and already balding pretty bad. I got the whole receding hairline thing where it goes behind a little patch on the front of my head. I want to shave it, but I'm not sure if it'll still look like I have a little patch in the front of my head. Plus I'd like your guys' opinions if I'd look good bald/buzzed... here are pics . Thank you.
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It's not really possible to tell what your hairline is like due to the way that your hair is combed. If it's very receded, it will be very visible if you buzz your hair. It will probably look OK, but if the receded hairline bothers you, you'll have to shave your head completely clean. There will still very likely be some shadow showing, but it will be a lot more subtle. I couldn't stand the receded hairline look on myself, so shaving was the only option.
I think you'd look great shaved. If you think you're ready to do it, give it a try. It will only take a few days to get to a buzzcut length from completely shaved anyway.
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Well, I really want to. I'm just real nervous about taking that step... Any feedback would be great. Thanks :)
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The best thing about shaving your head is if you don't like it , it will grow back.
Experiment. Take it down to almost nothing then look in the mirror. I did this then smiled and finished the act.
Afterward I had this great grin break out on my face. As soon as I was SLY I knew I made the right decision.
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Dude, just do it! I wish I would have shaved my head at 22.
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You don't tell us whether you have balding in the crown in back. If so, then you're moving on to male pattern baldness. Look up the Norwood/Hamilton charts, and if you're a three or higher, you are going to be bald. How you're going to be bald is your choice, not whether. If your current hairline is very symmetrical, then you can do a close buzz, #3 or lower until it progresses. It really depends on what you're comfortable with.
Another alternative has been suggested by RazorX, shave and see if you like the look now, if not it will grow out to a point you're comfortable with.
The main thing is not to get too involved w/ this--it happens to more than 50% of men at some time in their lives. Personally, at your age, I would kick it, shave it off, and see if it fit your life style now. Last evening we went to a party, the 20th anniversary of a major party location in the City of New Orleans, and although I've found a lot of fellow sly guys at the gym, airports, generally everywhere, I was amazed last night. There were more shaved heads than combovers, guys and their ladies everywhere. My wife doesn't like it, and I think that's what kind of put her off the party--it really was amazing.
So don't think you're moving into a strange situation, more and more guys from every walk of life, at all ages are getting rid of the balding situation and just going bald, hiding mpb in plain sight.
It is also very much a freedom thing, you just don't have to worry about it anymore.
Looking to see you on the Sly Side Soon.
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Thank for the replies guys. I am also wondering if you guys think that i have the facial features/ head shape for it to like somewhat okay? Here is another picture...Thanks
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There is no correct headshape or facial structure. It's all about being confident. You'll look fine. Like Tyler said earlier, I wish I had shaved my head at 22. You're at that age where nothing you do is really going to make you look bad, so just go with it. If you need some more inspiration check out the Before & After Gallery:
http://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/index.php?action=gallery;cat=2
Most importantly, don't agonize over it. You owe it to yourself to give it a try. The worst thing that can happen is that you'll decide it isn't for you.
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Thanks :). So you guys think it wouldn't look too bad?
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exactly what RazorX said.
give it a shot. then YOU decide
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Hey plong... Remove the girls from the pic and then I will try to tell ya my oppinion about yr head shape :D
I cant focus on you in the current pics, sorry :@`
Just kidding ;D
Ok dude, its just hair...
Shave yr head and if you dont like it sly (after the 30 days) grow yr hair back.
But i think that yr face shape is cool and the earing and the goatee suits the sly look O0
Sorry for my bad english
Greets fron Greece.
Dimitris.
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Thanks guys! I have another question. What am I supposed to do when i shave it? It's going to be SO white. And summer is pretty much over...
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Thanks guys! I have another question. What am I supposed to do when i shave it? It's going to be SO white. And summer is pretty much over...
Thats ...a problem.
Ask the Sly Gurus if it is ok to use a cream for that :)
Check that thread : http://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/index.php?topic=10239.0
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go for it; ask questions later.
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Thanks guys! I have another question. What am I supposed to do when i shave it? It's going to be SO white. And summer is pretty much over...
Jergens makes a self tanning lotion, several actually, that many here have used (including myself) to speed up the tanning process. They work great and didn't cause any irritaion. Do it man! Just shave it off!
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Hey plong! The fellas are right go for it. You appear to be a ladies man with or without hair give it a shot! It will grow back if it turns out you don't like it.
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Welcome Plong. Try it, you'll like it! If not?
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You seem to attract the ladies, so why not try it? You look like you have the attitude to pull off the look.
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I started thinking of it when I was your age too but went with the short buzz cut for a long time (13 years actually).
If you want to know what you look like with out hair, and this sounds really dumb and for those curious, yes alot of beer was involved with this discovery. Get a fleshtone latex glove from the drug store or somewhere and pull it over your head but just cover your hair line. Pull the fingers back and then stand at a distance from a mirror, that will give you a rough idea.
We were doing the classic blowing them up over our heads when I was about 22 at a party and then discovered they made you look like you shaved your head. We all started doing it, women included. Was amusing, but I did get a few, 'you'd look good with your head shaved' comments........ and the seed was planted! ;D
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I DID IT!!! I think it looks awesome! My mom said it looks funny and I look like a skinhead, but I think i just need a tan up there, and probably need to grow out my beard or goatee again...Wouldn't of done it without you guys!!! THANKS!
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Sweet man! Lets see a pic!
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Welcome to SBG's plong, good to hear you decided to do it. Now you can get head rubs from all those lovely ladies. ;)
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I DID IT!!! I think it looks awesome! probably need to grow out my beard or goatee again...Wouldn't of done it without you guys!!! THANKS!
Good to have you on the Sly Side, don't forget, keep it up for thirty days, it's a rule. Enjoy O0 O0 O0