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Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: tdytfjfgj on March 28, 2021, 07:30:07 AM

Title: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: tdytfjfgj on March 28, 2021, 07:30:07 AM
I was shaved when I met my wife. I agreed to grow it for our wedding. Maybe that was a mistake.

Now she wants me to keep the hair. She says it's a more trustworthy image for my job. I live in China and I trust her for this kind of viewpoint. I'm not prepared to engage in such fashion politics in a foreign country. Just stay neutral.

I've asked a few other people and they all seem to say they prefer hair. So I'm using Minoxidil to keep it.

I'd prefer to realize the vitamin D adaptation and go back to the convenience of shaving it off though. It's annoying.

So... roast me?
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: chuck63 on March 28, 2021, 09:01:18 AM
My wife prefers me with hair.  She doesn’t give me a hard time about being bald.  She wants me to be happy whether I shave my head or not. 
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: Cave Dweller on March 28, 2021, 11:29:30 AM
You are being very generous to accommodate your wife's tastes, but I seriously would not be trying to restore whatever hair I had lost were I ever to grow my horse shoe back.
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: clint902 on March 28, 2021, 04:33:21 PM
I don't know anything about the culture of the Chinese people  but I think it's  safer to follow the rules of any society.  If it's just a wife issue that's one thing but if the society frowns on it then that's quite another matter.
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: DoberDaddy on March 29, 2021, 03:26:37 AM
It's your body...
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: clint902 on March 29, 2021, 05:13:34 AM
It's your body...
That's true in the US(except the military) but maybe not in other countries.  There are some countries such as N. Korea that own the people
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: DoberDaddy on March 29, 2021, 05:43:19 AM
Between two married people...
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: Semi-Sly on March 31, 2021, 08:55:01 PM
 Well I would do some serious research into Chinese culture and their view of western men with shaved heads as opposed to Chinese men with shaved heads before I would simply take your wife’s word for this.   I don’t know how Chinese people feel about other Chinese men who choose to shave their head but the  Chinese nationals I know are pretty worldly wise in and fully understand western fashions and don’t even blink at western men with shaved heads. 

 Your wife’s statement is ,  even if there were a modicum of truth in it for a Chinese person , an awfully convenient excuse for her to get what she wants.
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: Rusty Shackleford on April 01, 2021, 01:07:38 PM
You're not property.  You're an adult.  Is she dictating that you regrow hair or is she recommending that growing out your hair?  Having a suggestion or opinion on the matter is one thing, but to demand that you comply with her whims is another.

Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: clint902 on April 01, 2021, 01:49:07 PM
Oh, I understand what it's like to keep the peace.  I shave my head daily to keep the peace here because if I miss a day, my wife calls me a "hippie".
Title: Re: Wife's enforcing hair
Post by: Tyler on April 04, 2021, 04:32:33 PM
Oh, I understand what it's like to keep the peace.  I shave my head daily to keep the peace here because if I miss a day, my wife calls me a "hippie".

Lol