Sly Bald Guys Forum

Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: Heartsbane on March 08, 2016, 02:05:22 PM

Title: What do you think?
Post by: Heartsbane on March 08, 2016, 02:05:22 PM
Hey everyone,

I'm 26 and like the most of you I have some issues with my hair. The hairline is receding and the hair on my crown is also thinning. Every morning it's a mess to style my hair so that no one notices my current hair status.
That's why I'm trying to get used to the thought of shaving my head. It's just that I'm totally unsure how it would look like. I know: I should just try and see for myself. But before that I think it would be a help to hear some advice from you (well, since this is a forum for bald guys I already know your answer  :XX).

My concerns are that I've got quite the big forehead and the shape of my face is more like a V. I was said by a barber that this face shape isn't a good precondition for looking good with a shaved head.

So, here's a link to a picture. See for yourself and thanks in advance for your opinions.  :)

http://s24.postimg.org/lk94rcs6d/pic.jpg

Greetings!
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: slymyke on March 08, 2016, 07:44:47 PM
I honestly think it is hard to get good advice about shaving from a barber.  He is more interested in cutting hair than losing a client. 

Your head shape is totally fine to be shaved if you chose to.  I don't think you really need to yet, but it is an option.. something to try if you feel like it.  It will grow back quickly enough.    I bet if you grow out more of your  facial hair, and then shave or buzz your head, you would really like it.

Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: Cave Dweller on March 08, 2016, 08:44:21 PM
Welcome to the board, Heartsbane.

I also see nothing at all irregular about your forehead or the shape of your head. When I was contemplating shaving, I took a heavy dose of hair oil and slicked my hair down and back to get an idea of my skull's shape. It gave me a good indication of what I was to see when the hair came off.

Frankly, though, I don't think you have anything about which to worry.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: amatlock2778 on March 08, 2016, 09:11:23 PM
I had similar concerns before shaving my head for the first time, but i loved the look from day one, i think you would feel the ssme, and quite honestly, much as i love my bald look, you would probably look even better than i do bald.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: mrzed on March 09, 2016, 04:14:48 AM
Heartsbane,

Being a guy who is BBC, and who has a large head (the Walmart hats just don't fit ... not large enough), regardless of how much hair you have or don't have, sporting a shaved head is still a good look.

What's the general hairstyle in your circle of friends and at work?  I work in the IT department and most guys have very short hair, buzzed, or shaved bald.  So it fits right in.  I got started with shorter hair when a co-worker suggested the shorter buzzed style. From there I just never let it grow out again, and eventually got the razor out.

Just this week at work, a lady from the kitchen made a comment, thinking I was naturally bald. She does not remember me with hair! 

You have enough hair left that if you want a minimum of reaction, you can just take it down slowly. Talk with your barber and let him know of your plans. Let him know that you want to take your hair down to a buzz.  Note, the shorter your go, the more frequently you need a haircut. You'll get to the point where you'll probably want to just get your own clippers and buzz at least once a week or more often, to keep a consistent look.

Break out the razor when you are ready.  Oh, and DO grow in the facial hair.  Look at SlyMyke's avitar for an example.  Bald and beard go well together.

Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: nicolaus on March 09, 2016, 04:22:20 AM
Honestly I think your head shape is very good and can imagine that a shaved head would be suit you very much.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: Sir Harry on March 09, 2016, 06:00:11 AM
It still looks like you have decent coverage to me...Try a shorter buzzcut first to see if you can get comfortable with little or no hair.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: jbrit25 on March 09, 2016, 06:15:36 AM
Your head and face shape is fine. I don't really think there's a certain face shape for bald anyway. I agree that you should start with a buzz. Start with a #3 and see how it looks.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: bennett11 on March 09, 2016, 06:18:08 AM
you will look good shaved.  i would go with short buzz initially.  just do it. 
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: VOT on March 09, 2016, 11:47:38 AM
Head shape is fine if you want to shave it. However a decent barber should be able to give honest advice. Something with much shorter sides would probably be best if you don't want to take the plunge yet
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: beardbald on March 09, 2016, 12:23:41 PM
I don't think you need to shave yet but I have to agree with the post above. A shorter cut with short sides will help you.

Nothing wrong with your forehead. I felt I had a big forehead when my hair started to recede but those concerns went when I shaved my head!
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: Heartsbane on March 12, 2016, 06:35:27 AM
Thanks for your replies, guys!

You helped me to make the step. Today my hair was shaved by my barber. ;) (I think I'll do it on my own in the future).

http://postimg.org/image/ktowqbbt9/

I have to say that I like it (though, now it's cold as hell outside without a cap  :D) . What do you think?  :)
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: Sir Harry on March 12, 2016, 07:03:59 AM
Looks good! If you're not ready to razor shave, that level suits you well, IMO.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: nicolaus on March 12, 2016, 07:31:40 AM
It looks great! I like it.   O0

In my opinion a smooth shaved head with glass would be make you look greater and more intelligent, but you can take a step in your tempo.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: reddog on March 12, 2016, 07:57:22 AM
Actually, you got a buzzcut, not shaved. It looks really good!
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: slybeard on March 12, 2016, 09:22:23 AM
Looks good, but its not shaved.  Most sly guys start with a buzz and gradually go shorter and shorter with it, and then razor shave.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: Cave Dweller on March 12, 2016, 09:26:29 AM
Glad you are happy with the new buzz. Looks good.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: tobler1 on March 12, 2016, 06:50:10 PM
The buzz looks really good.  Much more flattering than the longer hair, I think.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: stasiu on March 12, 2016, 07:18:07 PM
Looks good! If you're not ready to razor shave, that level suits you well, IMO.

Wyglądasz bardzo przystojny z krótkim brzęczenie cięcia. Tak, będziesz łysy. Jak najlepiej z niego, trzymając go brzęczały i jak można stracić więcej włosów, zachować coraz to brzęczały mocniej.

Sorry if my Polish is not the best.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: Semi-Sly on March 12, 2016, 09:02:29 PM
The buzz cut looks really good Staciu.  You are a handsome guy.
Title: Re: What do you think?
Post by: agentfortyseven on March 14, 2016, 09:40:05 PM
I think you'll be just fine with a shaved head, I went back and forth worrying about my head shape for awhile and I even had a barber tell me that I had a good shape to be bald but we'll all find things to nit pick about ourselves. Anyway try it out and see what you think I finally got over worrying about how it might look to others because I just like how it feels and it makes me happy