Sly Bald Guys Forum
Discussions About Being Bald => Advantages and Disadvantages to being Bald => Topic started by: Razor X on December 10, 2010, 08:27:01 AM
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Starting a new topic based on the "Court Appearance" thread so as not to hijack the original:
Still working on that smile. It always just seems to come out as a smirk or a snarl. I've decided that I am not going to compromise and grow out 2mm of stubble to look a little less severe.
Do you think the general population perceives 1mm of stubble to be less severe than a completely smooth pate? Remember that some people consider any kind of a haircut done with a clippers -- even a longish, #4 buzzcut, to be a "shaved head." So I am really wondering if the sort of person who thinks that way is going to make any distinction between a guy with a little stubble and one with a clean-shaven head. I'm guessing that in both cases, they see a bald guy and don't dwell on it any longer.
As far as those who do notice, not all of them are going to prefer the velcro look. I remember once -- probably about 5 or 6 years ago -- when I didn't shave for a few days (can't remember why, just laziness I suppose) and was told by my co-workers that I was looking "rough". Perhaps that perception was created because I didn't look the way they were used to seeing me; whether they'd have thought the same thing if they were meeting me for the very first time, I don't know. But it was the last time I ever showed up to work with even a hint of stubble on my dome. ;)
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Yeah, you're pretty much on the mark as far as generalities go. If you think about the "new" guys who mention how they've been buzzing and shave for he first time; how they love it but most people don't notice. To those who don't buzz or shave, buzzing is basically the same as shaving- because most don't pay attention to the detail. For the person who has shaved his dome for the first time, it is like opening up a whole new world to them, or a whole new life. It means so much to those that do the deed of shaving.
Now when you talk about going a few days (or more) and the nubs start growing out and there is a difinitive shadow, or look of hair, a person begins to take on a different look; especially if they are MPB and others notice the (not so good looking) difference. ;)
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...especially if they are MPB and others notice the (not so good looking) difference. ;)
Great point...if it is already going or almost gone, no need to hang on to those few strands of hair...just scrape the dome period!!!
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Either way it tells me that the guy has his priorities straight. He knows that the lack of hair doesn't make the man, and he knows that shaved/buzzed looks way better than the Friar Tuck, Comb-over, or other variations of the balding look. I feel sorry for those who just can't let loose the idea that losing your hair is not the end of the world.
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I've seen several guys who seem to shave only once or twice a week and have some stubble days in between. To me, knowing the difference from my personal perspective, I couldn't do it, but it's a matter of personal choice. Unless the guy is bbc it doesn't make a "hard" look, although for some reason it does strike me as a "hard" look with bbc guys--maybe it's a type of hold over from the skin head British footballers who have gained a bit of a reputation.
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I feel sloppy when I don't shave. If I skip a day, I doubt anyone can tell because it really doesn't look that different, but I just don't feel that I'm at my best when my scalp isn't scraped smooth. I always thought I wouldn't mind the stubble too much once I developed a well-defined horseshoe because I don't think that looks bad on other guys. But I'm kind of there now and not liking the stubble any better. :(
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Do you think the general population perceives 1mm of stubble to be less severe than a completely smooth pate? Remember that some people consider any kind of a haircut done with a clippers -- even a longish, #4 buzzcut, to be a "shaved head." So I am really wondering if the sort of person who thinks that way is going to make any distinction between a guy with a little stubble and one with a clean-shaven head. I'm guessing that in both cases, they see a bald guy and don't dwell on it any longer.
I think, like Razor X already said: For the general public it doesn't make much of a difference if somebody is shaved smooth or clippershaved, or 2 mm. Most people consider that to be bald.
Most of us know the difference of a smooth head compared to stubble, and the big difference in the feel of it, so we pick up on the difference.
So, does it make a difference?
For the most of us it does - for the general public: "not so much". ;-)
Just my humble oppinion
Regards
Sometimer
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In thinking about it, I guess the only people who notice the difference between a clean shaved head and a bit of velcro are people like us. I just think that those of us who have obvious mpb when our hair is grown out a bit look quite a bit older, and I suppose I equated looking older with looking "less severe". Of course there are so many other factors that go into how we are percieved or how we believe we are percieved. Just like in the army the only people who cared about what insignia we wore or what color are berets were, were other soldiers. Everyone else just saw soldiers where we saw infantry, armour etc.
As it turned out the prosecutor in the case had a shaved head - velcro not skin. He offered me a plea which I took. $100 and 3 months of good driving probation and no moving violation goes on my record. If I had lost the case it would have been $325 and would have gone on my record. I'm quite pleased. I hadn't realized how steap a fine it was for doing 30 in a school zone. Requesting a trial ended up being a good decision, and the whole hair thing was stupid to have even worried about.
Finally, the officer did show up and he too had a shaved head.
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prosecutor in the case had a shaved head - velcro not skin. He offered me a plea which I took. $100 and 3 months of good driving probation and no moving violation goes on my record.
Like I said, the attorney would see you before anything happened. You might have gotten off scot free if you had known his witness wasn't available, but the court could have continued, rather than dismissed the charge--depends on the relationship. You did a good deal and found out that you're part of the bald nation and that for almost every purpose a shaved head is irrelavent. Good move Jack!
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They hit you pretty hard for a little over the speed limit. But that's not as bad as passing a school bus , my wife was fined about $4oo and she says she never saw a bus.
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I must say that it was very nice not feeling so different because of my shaved head. There were more men with shaved heads in the courtroom as men with hair. That is obviously not what I'm used to in the classroom. It was worth going to court just to come to the realization that the shaved head look is so common and so accepted.
prosecutor in the case had a shaved head - velcro not skin. He offered me a plea which I took. $100 and 3 months of good driving probation and no moving violation goes on my record.
Like I said, the attorney would see you before anything happened. You might have gotten off scot free if you had known his witness wasn't available, but the court could have continued, rather than dismissed the charge--depends on the relationship. You did a good deal and found out that you're part of the bald nation and that for almost every purpose a shaved head is irrelavent. Good move Jack!
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It was worth going to court just to come to the realization that the shaved head look is so common and so accepted.
YES, and have we ever said that it wasn't here at SBG? Jack21 you're now totally part of the solution for other guys lurking out there, reading our posts--you are bringing a lot of guys to the obvious fact that it's not hair, it's who you are as a person that counts. Personally, I might have held out for a better deal, but you're a teacher, not a maligned lawyer like me >:D Good work.
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I didn't really realize the difference when i shaved my head for the first time either i had a little stubble left over, and a friend of mine in my artillery section saw me and took a look, he quickly picked up on the stubble and gave me tips on how to get a cleaner smoother shave, i corrected the issues and now i know what a smooth dome is like and im addicted.
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Hey guy's, I had gone back to the buzz look for a while and flat out did not like it. Of course my wife did, and requested I leave a bit more on top..... well the ol shaver then the head cream and razor took care of that one :*))
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I shaved my head around 8-9 pm tonight. Right now it's 4am and I can feel the stubble already. To me it matters, I don't want my head feeling like my sideburns, but I honestly doubt anyone else realizes it. Tonight was a special night, roommate had his 22nd birthday so we all went out looking good so I gave a good shave. Who would notice though? Probably just me, but to each his own. If you need the clean shave to feel confident then go for it, if it's not going to bother you enough to whip out the razor then forget about it.
I couldn't even begin to count the days I've woken up with bed hair/hat hair/greasy hair and completely forgot, at least the stubble it isn't as noticeable. Now I wake up and think, "I want to shave my head, wait, I'm still a bit too hungover think I'll wait a few hours."
Worst case scenario you always got the go to look of :x! I think that says enough.
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I've been clipping for the stubble look ever since I decided to get rid of my hair in the first place. Yeah, shaving my head feels great, but it gets irritated easier, I get bumps often when I shave also.
So, 99% of the time I use clippers with no attachment. People don't notice, and consider that "shaving" anyway...even if I leave it "stubble" and it grows, in a day or two I got that Jason Statham look.
I like the stubble look, and don't shave my face either- I use the same clippers with no attachment.
If I shaved, I would have to shave every day because otherwise it gets too long for a razor. Buzzing is just easier and faster for me.... Now that I think of it though, I remember some people commenting that it looks better than when I shave (but I specifically asked them after I shaved and they had to think about it).
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It all comes down to personal preference/taste. Some of us prefer the smooth look and feel, some really look like the stubble. And then there is the issue of appearance - some look great with the short stubble and some of us look messy.
Then you can really confuse the options with the variations of facial hair ranging from clean shaven to full bushy beards.
Experiment with the options and find what works best for you.
Maybe it's having been stuck in some sort of rut about how I saw myself, but I will say that sly seems to have given me many more options for my personal appearance.
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Smooth no question, that's the epitome of Sly. O0
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It all comes down to personal preference/taste. Some of us prefer the smooth look and feel, some really look like the stubble. And then there is the issue of appearance - some look great with the short stubble and some of us look messy.
Agreed. I prefer to shave every day, but also like to skip a day a week - my skin likes it that way. Today is my 'skip' day (head and face). While the stubble is very much shorter than if I'd cut it with clippers, the shadow from my dark hair colour is immediately pronounced - showing more skin tone where things are a little sparse, and showing darker islands where the hair is thicker.
From a "feel" perspective my whole head is fuzzy. From a "visual" perspective my head is splotchy.
When I'd first contemplated going sly I thought the morning shaving routine would be where I gave up on the whole enterprise. But I really enjoy my morning routine (to my surprise as I'm not a morning person!!).
shaving my head feels great, but it gets irritated easier, I get bumps often when I shave also.
One reason for going sly was to deal with a rash on both sides of my head (plus I have hassles with razor burn on my neck), but by taking advice and working on it both my head and neck are under control (about 3 days treatment) - no redness, bumps or irritation anymore. But do what works for you.
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From a "feel" perspective my whole head is fuzzy. From a "visual" perspective my head is splotchy.
I still find it a very strange sensation to run my hand over my head and feel stubble on the sides but very little on top. After more than 20 years of having a receding hairline, it's really hard to get used to the notion that it's all gone now. I started shaving before I got down to just a horseshoe. I just don't think of myself as a Norwood VI, so it's a really weird feeling.
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Smooth! I know I'm only at day 20 but anymore I can't stand the feel of stubble on my head. I think I'm obsessed! By the way, how do I get one of those cool personalized license plates??
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By the way, how do I get one of those cool personalized license plates??
Cool License Plates (http://www.slybaldguys.com/smf/index.php?topic=3998.0)
And yes, you can't beat the smooth feeling. 8)
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I really prefer the smooth over the stubble. :@`
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been shaved for over 7 years due to male pattern baldness, i prefer smooth over stubble, i hate the stubble, i have been keeping the bic'd look for 7 years
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I let it go on Sunday's and I can feel the stubblle on the sides - - - and feel and see the horseshoe in the back - -not much growing on top anymore - - -the dome is NATURAL - - I use a good shampo on the dome then cold water - -and I get a great shine and I love the feeling of my SLICK MELON -
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Definitely SMOOTH all the way for me!
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i HATE the feeling of being stubble.
but i keep it stubble To Save Money
i shave my dome every other day. and don't shave on the weekends unless i'm goin somewhere special
i always feel like i'm at my best when i shave my head. that's why i do it.
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I vote for a very smooth scalp, even if visually it does not make a big difference. The feeling of having a silky smooth dome is amazing.