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Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: Hawkerz on December 05, 2014, 04:49:17 PM

Title: Left it too long..
Post by: Hawkerz on December 05, 2014, 04:49:17 PM
So, I shaved my head in September and was pretty impressed. Reactions were kind of mixed so I let it grow back, and in that time started a decent job. I've kept it buzzed but I'm really nervous about going all the way again. What do you all think? Been through similar issues?
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Mike E. P. on December 05, 2014, 05:43:34 PM
How closely buzzed is your hair now? I used to clip my hair with no guard and when I first shaved it off completely, no one even noticed!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Hawkerz on December 05, 2014, 05:48:17 PM
My current haircut, it's a bit too long to go straight for the shave!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Mike E. P. on December 05, 2014, 06:35:20 PM
Why don't you do it gradually? Go a little shorter each time you cut your hair until you are finally sly.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Razorhead on December 05, 2014, 07:50:07 PM
I was in that same spot once. I grew my hair back into a flattop for a couple years. I got tired of it so I had the barber buzz it down to a clipper shave. It seemed word at first to see a bald noggin again but I was happy to go back to the next level and take the razor out. Been shaving ever since for the last four years. I love shaving. It's a huge convenience.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: AJ Q-Ball on December 05, 2014, 10:04:45 PM
I did pretty much the same thing you did man. I first shaved mine last December for a concept look since I was on break. When friends and family saw me, I got mixed reactions. They didn't see me clean shaven but with a little stubble. I grew back what hair I had left. After a few months I shaved it all off again with the help of SBG and stayed bald. Everyone liked it this time since
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Semi-Sly on December 06, 2014, 01:53:46 AM
Why don't you do it gradually? Go a little shorter each time you cut your hair until you are finally sly.

I think that this is great advice.  This ought to get you where you want to go.   
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: mrzed on December 06, 2014, 05:25:03 AM
I agree with Mike E P.

I've never let my hair grow back since I started shaving, but as I went sly, I buzzed shorter and shorter each week. My clippers had an adjustable blade, so that I could go in between sizes.  Went from #1 long, to medium to short, then #0.5 long, medium, short, then no guard long, medium, short.  It really looked bald, but felt fuzzy.

When I took the razor to my head, hardly anyone noticed. Took family members (that live in my house) three days to notice.

If that's too much messing around, but shave it. Smooth just feels so good.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: tobler1 on December 07, 2014, 08:19:43 AM
I get your concern about being in a good job, worrying about what people will say.  However, your buzz is short enough that people already probably would describe you as having a shaved head (you don't, but people can be so imprecise about this sort of thing!).  People may say something, but I suspect it will be far less than you think.  And your company is going to be concerned about whether you are an asset to the company.  Shaved heads may be a little bit unusual, but they really are pretty commonplace, they are clean, presentable and well-groomed.  I think you look better bald than buzzed.  So I say just go for it, stick to your guns, and enjoy the smooth side of life.  Of course, easing into the look gradually is certainly an option, but I sense you would prefer just to go for it.  Nothing wrong with listening to your inner voice here!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: jgnv on December 07, 2014, 04:29:02 PM
I think you shoud do it! The bald head is good man!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: DOC_OSMC on December 08, 2014, 09:31:07 AM
To be quite honest, I think your profile pic with the bald head and beard suits you much better.

I went with a buzz for about a year before I shaved it completely.   It did help get comfortable with the change and when I finally went sly, I got nothing but compliments from it.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Hawkerz on December 21, 2014, 09:54:29 AM
Thanks for all the advice guys, really helpful. I'm gradually getting there, buzzed it shorter this week. Slowly getting there! 
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Cave Dweller on December 21, 2014, 10:44:42 AM
Take your time, sir; but as Tobler stated, your avatar pic makes it look as though the razor already is in use. It is not that much of a step now to completely smooth.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: slybeard on December 21, 2014, 01:33:19 PM
I agree with DOC - the bald with facial hair is a better look for you.  So, I suggest do the gradual buzz a little shorter each week while at the same time you grow some facial hair, then take it razor smooth.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: tobler1 on December 21, 2014, 06:01:33 PM
Glad on you're on your way back to smooth, bit by bit!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Hawkerz on April 23, 2015, 03:12:52 PM
Hi Chaps,

Sorry for the long wait between posts! I went away and buzzed it shorter and shorter before finally losing all patience and shaved it. Attached is the final outcome!

Nobody cared at all at work!

Really glad I took the plunge, thanks for all your help.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Mike E. P. on April 23, 2015, 03:48:53 PM
Excellent. It looks great. I think many of us have learned the same thing. Nobody cares! Or notices. Or has bigger things to be concerned with. I'm glad you like the outcome. Congratulations!
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Post by: tobler1 on April 23, 2015, 09:09:58 PM
Looks excellent.  Glad to hear you're happy with it.
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Post by: Sir Harry on April 23, 2015, 09:10:39 PM
Congratulations! Glad it worked out for you.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: traveller on April 24, 2015, 05:29:01 AM
Congratulations - Glad it has worked out for you - enjoy
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: mzed1 on April 24, 2015, 05:49:03 AM
Looks like a good choice for you.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Semi-Sly on April 24, 2015, 12:30:10 PM
you look great!  And it loooks like you feel good too; am I right?
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Goatee on April 24, 2015, 01:24:37 PM
Well done.
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Post by: wpruitt on April 25, 2015, 12:10:29 PM
Looks good
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Razor X on April 26, 2015, 09:30:34 AM
Well done!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Cave Dweller on April 26, 2015, 10:20:16 AM
Nobody cared at all at work!

Yep. Isn't it amazing how much anxiety we expend worrying about what others will say, only to discover how  most people do not care or even notice the change?

Congratulations on taking the plunge, sir!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: K5mow on April 26, 2015, 01:38:58 PM
Congratulations looks good.

Roger
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: mrzed1 on April 27, 2015, 05:16:28 AM
The smile on your face says it all.

Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: lordpeich on April 27, 2015, 11:47:21 AM
Nice look for you. Anyproblemas with the red spots?
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: Hawkerz on May 01, 2015, 02:50:50 PM
I think the hardest battle is with yourself, like Cave Dweller said.

No problems with the seb derm. I'd kept it buzzed short for a bit which helped, then by the 2nd shave it had all gone. I'd had bad issues with it being itchy, not any more!
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: K5mow on May 01, 2015, 05:14:48 PM
Congratulations.
Title: Re: Left it too long..
Post by: chrisphilly123 on February 14, 2018, 04:11:06 PM
Thanks for all the advice guys, really helpful. I'm gradually getting there, buzzed it shorter this week. Slowly getting there!
buzzed zero guard looks great for ya. very strong.