No-one likes to feel rejected, that's for sure. The question is how important to you are the people whom you sense are rejecting you? If they are only casual acquaintances, be careful not to let strangers dictate how you live your life and feel about yourself. If you feel better with hair, then by all means grow it back.
Grow it back. Then conduct this experiment. If any of these girls (as opposed to women) ask about it make sure you tell them that you finally decided that it was time to do what everyone was telling you to do with their offhand little comments about baldness and pale complexions. Let them know that it was more important for you to be accepted by your peers than it is to follow a path of your own. Then report back to us and let us know if the relationship/marriage quest has shown any improved results.
I don't know what to make of your last post. There's part of me that says "no, don't write this dude off, he's really being sincere" and then there's part of me that says that you're just funnin'. If you're just funnin' (joking around) or just trying to get a rise out of somebody, well, I get that. Maybe you're writing a master's thesis for psych and this is kind of like a poll where nobody knows they're being polled and you're going to use the results to establish a theory that bald men actually are the most prone to become serial killers.But the dark side of this is if you're really sincere and that much of the time when someone writes something to attempt to give you some positive direction you are able to come up with some new malady like the Napoleonic thing. With all the issues you have going on I think that the hair question is the least of your worries as far as cohabitation with the opposite sex is concerned. The problem here from my point of view, and this is just my opinion and I've been known to be wrong in the past, is the person you like the least in this life is the one you see every time you happen to gaze into a reflective surface. That is provided that you aren't pulling our collective leg. But if you're serious I gotta say that the last thing you want to worry about is getting into any kind of long term committed relationship. Because whatever relationship you end up with is going to turn to $h!t sooner rather than later because you have never had any respect for yourself to start with and when that's the case nobody else is going to feel compelled to respect you, either. But this is stuff that you have to figure out, maybe with some assistance from a professional. There's no shame in that, it's something that sometimes needs to be done because humans are flawed.
You just can't win when you are short and balding..it is just how it is.
watch this video above- he has self confidence in baldness . Please stop crying VICTIM OF BALDING AND BEING SHORT. no one finds that appealing. It projects a profound lack of self confidence/self worth. your life will not change until you change your limiting beliefs about being bald/short. people smell that a mile a way and will reject you for the lack of self worth, not lack of height or hair.
He has tan skin, which makes a huge difference.
@oakdan5It has been a while since I've been active here, because I basically forgot about the forum. The interesting thing about that is that after I buzzed my head as short as possible (1mm), I have never seen my lack of hair as an issue anymore. I seriously became a tiny detail in my life, compared to the big mental struggle it was to me before. From the start, I grew to like it in many ways and I would not go back if I could. And for your info; I went from a full head of curls to a buzzcut within a year. It quickly got very thin.I showed the pictures of you to my girlfriend, and just like I thought she said: "this is a typical example of someone who's problem is a mindset-thing". You have a good facial structure and a very fit posture, you're far from an unattractive man. If you buzz your hair short (which I would do) it should absolutely not affect how people perceive you in any way. Maybe it could even be positive, like it felt in my case. It may sound a little judgmental and harsh, but it's time to wake up. Buzz/shave it off, put on a nice outfit and get your head back on straight. In the things you write, you show insecurity in between every line, and I'm almost certain that is what wears off on the people in your environment. You're a man, a Norwegian viking for **** sake, you don't have to be the flawless boyish type to be seen as attractive. It also helps to look around at other men, and notice that the ones with a full head of hair are not necessarily good looking. And most of the men who are, would also look handsome without it.