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Discussions About Being Bald => To be or not be...Bald => Topic started by: timerhyme on February 01, 2008, 04:38:29 PM

Title: Should I go sly?
Post by: timerhyme on February 01, 2008, 04:38:29 PM
I've been toying around with the idea of shaving my head for quite some time. Mentioning it to my friends usually gives me a negative response to the idea. This seems to be the theme around here from reading other posts, but I'm not sure if they're wrong because I have a slim build (5'8 150), although I do regularly lift. And who knows what shape my head will be after the fact.

I don't think my hair looks extremely bad, but I have noticed that just because of this balding my once high confidence has dropped quite a lot so something has to be done. Please look at the pictures below and let me know if I should shave it all off. If not, what do I do with it... as you can see I don't have too much hair left in the front.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: SLYinKC on February 01, 2008, 04:48:22 PM
Welcome to SBG's, timerhyme.  Glad you posted.  My advice is to shave it off.  I'm just guessing that you're right where each of us have been, and from my experience, you won't be satified with yourself until you've given it a try.  You might want to start by buzzing your hair down to a shorter cut to get used to it, or if you got the desire, just do it all at once.  But what ever you decide, I strongly suggest at least working your way towards SLY.

Best of luck.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Tyler on February 01, 2008, 06:06:14 PM
Welcome to Sly Bald Guys!  As KC said, I think you should also shave it off.  With your curent hairline, I can see that you have a nice round profile from the front.  I think you'd be amazed at how good you'll look with a shaved head, especially with your strong jaw line. (Wow, I don't think I've ever analyzed a person's face like this before) 
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: BALDANDRE on February 01, 2008, 06:29:04 PM
Oh...dude...without question....shave it smooth dude!

You will look WAY better and like Tyler said, it will improve and actually make your stronger feature show more...

NEVER ask if you should shave your head to someone that has hair...they will never get it until they see your improved look once it shaved smooth!

Go for it bro!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Adam on February 01, 2008, 06:37:02 PM
Of course, I agree with my other sly brothers in that you should do it.  And echoing what Tyler said, you look like you can pull it off as it is, so take Nike's advice....Just Do It!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Razor X on February 01, 2008, 07:41:44 PM
Oh...dude...without question....shave it smooth dude!


Is there any other answer to this question?  The answer is always yes, and even if it weren't it would still be yes in this case.

I'll be completely honest -- you really do need to do something about your hair.  Too much bulk on the sides and back is never a good look once the top starts to recede and thin.  At the very minimum, you need a short buzz cut.  A complete shave would look awesome on you.  Don't even hesitate about it; you'll look a lot better and younger and that will do a world of good for your flagging confidence.

I hope I haven't offended you.  I really do think you'd look great with a shaved head, and if you will just take that leap of faith and do it, I can guarantee that you'll be thanking us afterwards.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Mikekoz13 on February 01, 2008, 07:44:42 PM
Of course the answer is "SHAVE IT"!

No offense intended, but that's not a good look you have going on. As Razor said above..... I would at least buzz it very short.

Keep asking questions on this site for a ton of answers and support.

Dude... you have a good head... SLy will look good on you........


                       Mike
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: timerhyme on February 01, 2008, 08:07:26 PM
No offense taken. Actually that picture is a month old and the sides of my head are even more buff with hair. I completely agree that something needs to be done about it. Tomorrow I will take the plunge. If i can't go all the way shaved, I will at least get a buzz cut. Thanks for your opinions.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Adam on February 01, 2008, 09:13:57 PM
Be sure to post some pics if the newly sly dome.  Can't wait to see the transformation.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Timmay on February 01, 2008, 09:25:14 PM
Welcome to the site bro...but I will add....the top pic...not too bad...the bottom pic....I would probably jump across the street to the other sidewalk ifyou were walking towards me! LOL...
No its not that bad...but that bottom pic....needs to go.  Just shave it down...see what you think...its hair...it will grow back.  I think you will be satisified with the look and once you are bitten.....you wont go back. I guarentee it.....I guarentee it soo much that BaldAndre will grow all his hair back....cornrow it...with pink ribbons and walk down the middle of NYC...in the famous red and whites.....
Good luck..post up a pic of the new look ok
Timmayyyyyyyy!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Adam on February 01, 2008, 09:33:43 PM
Welcome to the site bro...but I will add....the top pic...not too bad...the bottom pic....I would probably jump across the street to the other sidewalk ifyou were walking towards me! LOL...
No its not that bad...but that bottom pic....needs to go.  Just shave it down...see what you think...its hair...it will grow back.  I think you will be satisified with the look and once you are bitten.....you wont go back. I guarentee it.....I guarentee it soo much that BaldAndre will grow all his hair back....cornrow it...with pink ribbons and walk down the middle of NYC...in the famous red and whites.....
Good luck..post up a pic of the new look ok
Timmayyyyyyyy!

Won't that be a sight!  However, in the middle of NYC, I am not so sure he'll be much of a spectacle, with as many "different" folks that wander those streets.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: wpruitt on February 01, 2008, 09:38:17 PM
Without a doubt bro ... You are me if my hair were long!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: BALDANDRE on February 01, 2008, 10:20:57 PM
Welcome to the site bro...but I will add....the top pic...not too bad...the bottom pic....I would probably jump across the street to the other sidewalk ifyou were walking towards me! LOL...
No its not that bad...but that bottom pic....needs to go.  Just shave it down...see what you think...its hair...it will grow back.  I think you will be satisified with the look and once you are bitten.....you wont go back. I guarentee it.....I guarentee it soo much that BaldAndre will grow all his hair back....cornrow it...with pink ribbons and walk down the middle of NYC...in the famous red and whites.....
Good luck..post up a pic of the new look ok
Timmayyyyyyyy!

Timmy, the funny chick hair and sexy dressin' is YOUR gig...I wouldn't want to take that seat from you! ;)
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: andrew on February 01, 2008, 11:10:10 PM
Welcome to SBG,  Timer ...  I agree with all the advice the other guys have given you.   It seems like radical move shaving it all off, but once you've done it the freedom it brings is just unbelievable.  You will likely regret that you didn't do it sooner.

Maybe grow a goatee to go along with your new look ...
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: StogieStang on February 02, 2008, 01:09:10 AM
I agree with the other guys you need to shave it all off.  Your only other option is to go really short.  If you don't cut it short or shaved then you get the bozo the clown hair style going.  No offense, it happens to most guys before they shave it all off.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: dinosaur on February 02, 2008, 01:21:31 AM
are you serious? how is this even a question??

dude, you have a great face, and your smile is fantastic. the fact that you have some hair and are bald on top distracts from what makes you YOU. i'm serious, you look like such a fun guy in those pics (as i'm sure you are) but if i saw you, i'd instantly categorize you as a balding dude sporting a bozo the clown look. that said, most other people probably see the same... dont be the balding dude, be the DUDE who just happens to shave his head.

seriously man, great face/personality combo is beggin for a shave. if you hate it, so what? its hair... what you have will grow back. but why does it need to?

plz post pics of your clean head so the ladies can begin swooning
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Jdogs Better Half on February 02, 2008, 01:40:03 AM
you should totally go sly...... no question! It would look great!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Johannes on February 02, 2008, 03:33:27 AM
Shave it, go for the fresh look with a big smile
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: schro on February 02, 2008, 05:34:50 AM
Welcome to SBG!
In looking at your pics, all I could envision was "pizza chef".  :*)) Sorry.
When I had hair, I also had curly hair that was thicker on the sides, so I'm speaking from experiece. Keeping it tight is key, even if you don't take the plunge. Although, the feeling of liberation you get from going sly is empowering.
 8)
Good Luck!
Schro
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Timmay on February 02, 2008, 07:29:52 AM
Welcome to the site bro...but I will add....the top pic...not too bad...the bottom pic....I would probably jump across the street to the other sidewalk ifyou were walking towards me! LOL...
No its not that bad...but that bottom pic....needs to go.  Just shave it down...see what you think...its hair...it will grow back.  I think you will be satisified with the look and once you are bitten.....you wont go back. I guarentee it.....I guarentee it soo much that BaldAndre will grow all his hair back....cornrow it...with pink ribbons and walk down the middle of NYC...in the famous red and whites.....
Good luck..post up a pic of the new look ok
Timmayyyyyyyy!

Won't that be a sight!  However, in the middle of NYC, I am not so sure he'll be much of a spectacle, with as many "different" folks that wander those streets.



I was making it easy for BaldAndre................lol
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: timerhyme on February 02, 2008, 10:23:17 AM
Alright I did it. I actually do like it a lot. A little pointy, but thats alright. I put the 'after' pic as my profile picture. I've got some questions though.

It took me forever to shave my head, and this was after i had it cut down with a trimmer as short as possible. How long does it usually take you guys to get it shaved? I don't particularly want to take too much time in the morning since I usually only leave myself 20mins to get ready for work.

I also haven't quite decided what to do with my facial hair. A goatee sounds nice but I usually can't get very good growth connecting the upper lip with the chin along the sides.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Razor X on February 02, 2008, 10:28:24 AM
Wow!  What an improvement!   O0

The first time you shave always takes a little longer because you're unfamiliar with the process and you're also shearing off a lot of hair.  If you keep up with it daily, there's less hair to remove each day.  Plus you get more comfortable with the routine and it will start to go faster.   I can get mine done in about 5 or 6 minutes.  Just take your time and don't rush or you'll cut yourself.  You'll get faster with practice without even realizing it.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: joergHH on February 02, 2008, 10:53:00 AM
Hello welcome timerhyme!

The new look is awesome!! Congratulation.

My shavinge-routine needs for head and face about 10 minutes.it's my little start ritual for the day.

Enjoy your new look and this great forum.

J
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Mikekoz13 on February 02, 2008, 10:59:38 AM
WOW TIMER!!!! You look great with the new bean!!! No comparison Dude.... it looks awesome.

I guarantee you will be turning some heads... Mines a little pointy too!!


                           Mike O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Stu on February 02, 2008, 11:37:05 AM
I guess I'm a little late here, but you definitely made the right decision.  The Bozo look is not good on anyone.  Now you look like a dude I'd like to go have a beer and watch a game with.  The old you, I'd be avoiding and shaking my head, thinking 'dude, look at yourself; this is not good.'

Definitely take the time shaving; your speed will go up as you get more used to it.  Read the numerous posts about shaving tips, techniques, products, and you'll find the right ones to work for you.  If you're pressed for time, you might want to shave at night until you get your time down.  I'm a shower shaver with a mirror, and I can go with and against the grain with my Headblade in 5-6 minutes.  Just be patient, and post up any questions.  Even if they've been asked before, it may be hard to find amongst all of the threads.  We sly guys can be 'wordy' in our enthusiasm (me included).  Welcome aboard, and congrats!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Tyler on February 02, 2008, 12:43:41 PM
Looks great!   Like RazorX said, you'll get the time to shave down with practice.  Just don't rush it. 

As for facial hair, experiment.  Though, I think you look good with the 5 o'clock shadow look like you have in the avatar.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Jdogs Better Half on February 02, 2008, 01:41:03 PM
WHOA!!! you look so different.....you should def keep the sly look - looks kick ass!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: schro on February 02, 2008, 01:44:28 PM
DOOD.....LOOKS AWESOME!
Huge improvement. Congrats. Like anything else, practice makes perfect. I remember the first time I shaved the head, it felt like I was shaving for an hour. After a short time, I got the routine to around 6 or 7 minutes.
Keep at it!

Schro
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: dinosaur on February 02, 2008, 05:36:33 PM

As for facial hair, experiment.  Though, I think you look good with the 5 o'clock shadow look like you have in the avatar.

second on this... i personally prefer some scruff on my face. i cant do the goatee thing either. although it is kinda funny how once you shave your head, your beard becomes your new "hairstyle" ha!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: SLYinKC on February 02, 2008, 05:50:07 PM
Looks great, timerhyme.  Don't worry too much about how long it takes for the daily shave.  Like most of us, you should have it down to 10 minutes or less.  The shadow look you have right now seems to really suit you.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: R o b 6 on February 02, 2008, 07:17:40 PM
Wow, awesome transformation! You're a tribute to the indecisive MPB guys (I was one of 'em) by taking action! Your picture looks like you're happy with your decision.

You'll get the technique down in no time and probably cut the time it takes almost in half. It's good to experiment with different razors and shaving creams and get a feel for what works best.

A lot of us have a lot of opinions here and are willing to offer them up so feel free to ask away.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: andrew on February 02, 2008, 08:03:53 PM
Timer - it looks awesome !!!   Congratulations on your decision. O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: warhawk on February 02, 2008, 09:23:39 PM
timer....welcome 2 the sly fraternity.  u definitely made the right decision when u decided 2 take the plunge.  u look like a natural.  remember...the more U shave the better U will get.  just don't hurry when U R shaving that dome.  hope U stick around & B an active member of the best site on the internet.  keep us posted on your family & friends reactions 2 your new sly look.

WARHAWK O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: BALDANDRE on February 02, 2008, 10:30:34 PM
Duuuude!!!!!!

Awesome Bro! It looks great...good for you...pointed head...dude no way!

Keep it smooth at least for a month...

You will love your new life as a bald "sly" guy...trust me!

Friggin' awesome!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: StogieStang on February 02, 2008, 11:05:10 PM
It didn't take you long to get off the fence.  Good job.  O0  You look younger for sure.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: WannaBePadre on February 03, 2008, 12:39:57 AM
Looks great!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: timerhyme on February 03, 2008, 09:23:36 AM
 I went to a party last night to see what would happen and the reactions from my friends were all positive. Of course anyone I tell about it before they see me, all they ask is 'Why?' like I'm crazy for doing it. Now tomorrow we'll see how the coworkers take it.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: RodgerDodger on February 03, 2008, 10:00:35 AM
Alright I did it. I've got some questions though.

It took me forever to shave my head, how long does it usually take you guys to get it shaved? I don't particularly want to take too much time in the morning.

I also haven't quite decided what to do with my facial hair.

Welcome timerhyme!

Cool transformation. Dude, now you look like the true you. No more bad hair days for you.

In no time you'll be a pro at getting your dome smooth and sly. I razor shave before I go to sleep, and do a quick touch up in the morning with my Remington. It works for me and I don't have to worry about early morning razor cuts.

As for the facial hair, try a stache w/a disconnected goat. If that doesn't work for you, then Mr. Clean is ok. But give your goat at least three weeks,
before you axe it.

Rodger, Over and Out  O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: JustColorado on February 04, 2008, 05:32:06 AM
Amazing!!!!!!

You should be a case study for shaving your head.  Because you are a handsome guy but it is hard to tell on the before photos. 

You look at least 10 years younger
You look at least 10x better


Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Johannes on February 04, 2008, 05:46:00 AM
Amazing!!!!!!

You should be a case study for shaving your head.  Because you are a handsome guy but it is hard to tell on the before photos. 

You look at least 10 years younger
You look at least 10x better




Same from me

Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: GASlick on February 04, 2008, 06:06:52 AM
You don't even look like the same guy.  Awesome.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Sgt. Pate on February 04, 2008, 11:45:37 AM
Looking good bro, congratulations!  O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Timmay on February 04, 2008, 09:50:23 PM
Nice...
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: marty22 on February 05, 2008, 05:57:05 PM
phenomenal change. you look a lot younger.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: champ007 on February 05, 2008, 11:47:11 PM
Wow, I missed this topic and in 2-3 days you jumped right in. Awesome change!!  O0
As for a pointed head I don't see it. Once you get a little sun I am sure you won't think it anymore.
Congrats on a new beginning and welcome to SBG  O:O
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Timmay on February 06, 2008, 10:11:32 AM
Im still amazed at the transformation....are you sure that they are the same person in both pics?  Dude you will be getting the women now....you look like a celebrity....no kiddin...go get em!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: DeathTyrant on February 10, 2008, 03:20:08 PM
My friend, you look so much better now.  :) I think you look a lot younger, and it definitely suits you!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Mikekoz13 on February 11, 2008, 04:40:28 AM
TIMERRHYME-

 
                         If you're out there... give us some info on the reactions you got from the co-workers........
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Braco on February 12, 2008, 05:19:24 PM
Definitely suits you, you look much younger O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: xnewyawka on February 13, 2008, 05:18:35 PM
Looks awesome Timer, what a total change. There should be no doubts in your mind as far as the new you, bro.   O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: nomad on February 13, 2008, 06:46:27 PM
Timer it is you brother, you are a new, younger looking dude, the ladies are going to go nuts, you won't believe how your life will change for the better. Going sly is always a new start on life and a big boost in confidence.  O0  8)

Dino you got me with the facial hair being our new hair style, thats to dam funny but true. :*))
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: blondeguy on February 22, 2008, 11:06:01 AM
Definitely suits you, Timer.  What a change.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: slickmick on February 22, 2008, 08:55:39 PM
Dude, you looked a hell of alot better with hair.  What are you some kind of a freak, you SHAVED your HEAD???!!!  My God!

Just kidding, you look awesome, so much more symmetry, so much younger, you're like a male version of a chick on a makeover show (can we call you "the swan?").  Keep it up man, without a doubt!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: baldntat05 on March 31, 2008, 12:30:59 AM
Looks outstanding, much younger, hope you are still enjoying the bald head.
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: glowingrock on April 01, 2008, 06:52:40 AM
Holy frickin' crap!  I pulled the trigger last night (so to speak) and joined the ranks of the sly bald guys.  What do you think?  Can I pull this look off?
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: schro on April 01, 2008, 07:56:22 AM
Hey Glowingrock,
Can you pull the slick look off? Definitely.  O0

The Mr. Bill "Oh No" Look on your face? Not sure...  ???

j/k  ;D
Good looking dome.
Cheers!
Schro
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: warhawk on April 01, 2008, 08:04:50 AM
glowingrock... your dome is looking very sly.  how do U like your new look?  what R the reactions from your inner circle?

schro... "mr. bill"> dang... U  are taking it wayyyy back.  the funny thing is that i laughed after reading your comment.  dang... we R definitely showing R "young" age. O0

WARHAWK O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Timmay on April 01, 2008, 08:56:38 AM
OH NO MR BILL!  LOL....damn i miss those shows.

Glowing Rock....you definitely rock the sly look bro.  There is no question as to whether or not you could pull it off....Good Call!
Timmayy!
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: champ007 on April 01, 2008, 09:57:50 PM
Is it just me or does glowing rock and Timmayyy have a strange resemblance in their avatars ???
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: jusbnme on April 01, 2008, 10:04:27 PM
Yeah, they both have the Oh $*** look.  ;D
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: BALDANDRE on April 01, 2008, 11:32:58 PM
Holy frickin' crap!  I pulled the trigger last night (so to speak) and joined the ranks of the sly bald guys.  What do you think?  Can I pull this look off?

Glowingrock...

Said it in a different post...but you can definately rock the bald head bro...

Keep scraping it dude...a bald head looks good on the trail! O0
Title: Re: Should I go sly?
Post by: Mikekoz13 on April 02, 2008, 09:22:42 AM
Hey GLOWINGROCk-


                  Welcome to the Forum and you definetly rock the SLY look..........