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Offline capthappy8p

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hey guys i need some help or support!
« on: May 25, 2009, 03:49:23 PM »
Here is the thing my ex and i have broken up last summer but have been seeing eachother over the last few months... she recently met someone it erked me but the guy was a dick and co,plete a$$hole to her... then i didnt help that cause i said i told ya so but then we talked things out sshe thinks we are still friends and all... I dont know what to think. We went out for lunch and i didnt know how to ask we have been goin out for nearly 3 years before hand...

she is leaving for PA for the summmer in a week and now she is acting all buddy buddy like nuthing happened and we are best friends. I could never read ur feelings and it always seems aqkqard now when we meet. I have feelings for her and actually still want relations (sexual) but i dont know if shed go for it...

PLease everyone tell me I should just let her be and move on and ignore her... I thought i could do it but i cant i just keep having a reocurring nightmare where she brings her current date to my art gallery show and i end up punching him in the face and walking out... thats a night mare spiders and vampires are the fun kind of nightmares i enjoy having lol


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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #1 on: May 25, 2009, 03:57:16 PM »
Dude, if you want to have sex with her again, just be honest and tell her you want to be "friends with benefits." If she goes for it, she won't freak out when you hook up with someone better over the summer. If she doesn't, she'll probably be the one to ignore you, which is just as good. It's not like you need her. There will be many girls and many relationships.

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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #2 on: May 25, 2009, 05:45:26 PM »
yeh thats what weve been for the past few months i guess but i dunno its not what she wanted
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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #3 on: May 26, 2009, 04:54:04 AM »
Move on Cat and forget about her. No woman is worth obsessing over..........
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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #4 on: May 26, 2009, 07:44:13 AM »
plenty of fish in the sea. time to cast a new line and bait. O0


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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #5 on: May 26, 2009, 08:23:32 AM »
yeah man, she is unnecessary baggage. drop her and move on. "It" is all the same. just attached to a different face, you know? There will be more.
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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #6 on: May 26, 2009, 09:52:12 AM »
Thanks guys i needed a reality check here... it was all of a sudden or something maybe its been the blue balls talking or something but im movin on now... time to find a new girl

Move on Cat and forget about her. No woman is worth obsessing over..........

thanks mike but why do u keep calling me Cat? hahahaha
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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #7 on: May 26, 2009, 04:02:37 PM »
I have one word for ya bro'.........NEXT!!!!
 

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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #8 on: May 26, 2009, 06:07:44 PM »
hey capt:  i say move on. O0

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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #9 on: May 27, 2009, 09:00:03 PM »
I agree with all the bro's Capt. It's time to move on and have yourself a great Summer!

Just have fun and enjoy yourself. You will get over her in no time.   O0

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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #10 on: June 01, 2009, 09:05:30 PM »
I agree with everybody else bro... Just move on. Don't spend any[ time trying to make her jealous. You're sly, so you already have an advantage O0 replace her, date her friend (I've done that, it's VERY effective in making the other one jealous, But I think I may have gone too far, because we were all living together, NOT RECOMMENDED). But seriously, it's time to do you man..... just give her a band-aid and tell her she's CUT O0
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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #11 on: June 17, 2009, 08:14:51 PM »
I agree with everybody else bro... Just move on. Don't spend any[ time trying to make her jealous. You're sly, so you already have an advantage O0 replace her, date her friend (I've done that, it's VERY effective in making the other one jealous, But I think I may have gone too far, because we were all living together, NOT RECOMMENDED). But seriously, it's time to do you man..... just give her a band-aid and tell her she's CUT O0

thanks man ill like the way u think haha

but any way guys its been awhile her and i are just friends now... but on the other note i have been talkin to a few other girls who seem to be really into bald guys (lucky me) and they are right around my age!

So im feelin pretty good
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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #12 on: June 17, 2009, 11:36:19 PM »
the best way to get over the last one is to get ON the next one!


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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #13 on: June 19, 2009, 01:27:04 AM »
OR you can let the next one get on you..... either way, if its new, it's gonna be fun lol
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Re: hey guys i need some help or support!
« Reply #14 on: June 19, 2009, 03:32:32 AM »
Break the rear view mirror off that relationship..floor the accelerator and move on!
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