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samoanseb8:
Ok, so on the weekend, I attended a birthday party of a friend, who is really more of an acquaintance of a few very good friends of mine...Had a great time, but during the course of the night I sat down next to his Girlfriend and had a friendly chat with her, with no agenda other than to make general conversation...we talked for about half and hour or so, and she was a nice girl, I enjoyed her company and she seemed to enjoy mine, and left it at that. yesterday I added her on facebook (I add a lot of people to facebook).  Today the guy rings me up, and asks me what I said to his girlfriend...I told her we talked about how they met etc...because some of my mates had told me they met under unusual circumstances ( a drunken music festival) and my mates like to give him a ribbing about it...he got all defensive about this and told me his GF is not my friend so why did I add her on facebook and why was I talking to her about them meeting etc...This infuriated me because he was extremely disrespectful to the point that i may have taken a swing if he was standing in front of me. I am not a violent or negative person at all and I always treat people with respect, so this has all been weird to me, dealing with this anger toward him. My mates tell me he is very insecure and to leave it at that. On my part, maybe I should not have added her to facebook but if a guy can't accept his girlfriend having guy friends then maybe he has some deeper issues. I am a friendly outgoing guy who can have a conversation with practically anyone, so perhaps this deceived him in thinking that I was making a move on his girl...I didnt want to get into a verbal slinging match so I have left it alone, but eventually we will have to meet again because of our mutual friends...not sure on how to handle this situation because I feel very disrespected and angry.

hammerdrill376:
Sounds like this guy has a BIG insecurity problem. He may be a very possesive person and that can lead to big problems for her down the road. I would just drop the whole thing for now. Both of you feel offended and trying to "work it out" could lead to more confrontation.  Next time you do run into him, and if the situation comes up take the high road and apologize and let him know you weren't trying to make moves on his woman. If he does not accept that then at least you have done your part.

Mikekoz13:
I wouldn't sweat it............ the guy sounds like an insecure ass. Don't waste any of your positive energy worrying about him.

PeripheralxMvmnt:
Yeah, hes just insecure, and  more than likely hes just blowing off steam. Let him fluff his feathers and feel important, and you just keep being who you are.

Papa Don:
Like the guys have said already--it's evident you had no concept of stealing the GF.  So just back away and watch what happens.  If this girl has any sense, she will realize that she doesn't need an ass in her world.

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