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ive got a date tonight fellas.

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Ghost1988:
wish me luck. i FINALLY met a 20 yr old gal who doesnt care that im balding. im extremly nervous though because this is really the first actual "date" ive had since i started losing my hair so im feelin a little self conscious. i hope it goes well. its not one on one though so it shouldnt be that bad. its me, her, my buddy (who introduced us), and this girl hes talking to.

any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated at this point lol.

Sean25:
hey hey.. That a babe.  Just have fun and enjoy it, I'm pretty sure its not gonna be your last

PowerOfCheese:
Good luck tonight Ghost. My advice would be NO self deprecating humor about your bald head. Remember: You are YOU with or without hair. Don't make an issue of it with this girl and let her see all of your redeeming qualities.

If you NEED to mention your head to break the ice or make yourself more comfortable I suggest saying something like (while rubbing your head) "Head rubs feel SOOO good!" and give a sheepish smile. She may discover she enjoys rubbing the noggin. You're home free after that my friend.

Other stuff would be don't talk about yourself too much. Ask questions and remember the answers. Give her a genuine compliment. Make eye contact and smile but don't stare the whole time. Don't look away every time she looks at you!!! Breath MINTS!!! My last suggestion would be to ignore all my advice and be yourself.

Relax and have fun brother!

SLYinKC:
Just try to be laid back and have fun.  Don't have any preconceived expectations other that to have fun with friends.  That way she can see what a cool guy you are.

Timmay:
Power said it right bro.  Do not keep bringing up the fact that you shave your head.  It is obvious that you do that.  I bet you $20 bucks that you get a head rub from her tonight.

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