Hey Lisa, welcome (and tell your husband welcome as well!) It's so awsome that you are so supportive. It's sad, but if you read some of the posts, there are many loved ones that are not! Keep at it and keep coming back. It's nice to hear from the fairer sex once in a while, especially on SBG (a veritable melting pot of intense uber-manliness). My wife says to be careful, the only reason she doesn't post is that there are just TOO many studmuffins (her words!) here! lol