Do what YOU want to do brother..if others don't like it they can have their opinion but I doubt they pay your bills for you do they??
Welcome Bro. You look great. You are not going to please everybody... with any decision you make in life. There is always some opposition in all things. My mother has ha a hard time. Last time we met (couple weeks back) she said, "Your head looks like my butt!" I retorted saying, "The only difference Mom is that my head has no hair on it!!" We laughed and she got off my case. Relax. True friends will love and respect you irregardless of the choice to be Sly. Sometimes it just takes some time to get used to it.
Hello Amess. I think either look is fine. My point to this is that perhaps you should change your moniker to Mr. Wonderful or something in the positive. Amess kind of indicates that you are not happy with the situation. It is really a bummer. DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO!!! Keep saying "I am great, wonderful and a good person irregardless of my appearance. If you can't accept me for the great person I am, shame on you".