It's not just the Black guys that have this problem, brother. Italian men like myself feel your pain as well. The bottom line is sensitive skin and course hair. I can't even think about going against the grain on my face or all hell will break loose. I am having the same issue on my head. Our Bald Brothers on this site are very wise in the ways of the Sly, so I would try every suggestion they throw out. I know I am! It's hard to imagine hyper-sensitive skin and wire-course hair unless you live with it. It's a cruel trick I think...If you follow the pre-shave routine, the shave routine and the post-shave routine mentioned, you will find your path. I began thinking the same way you are. I wanted a completely smooth head. Then I got tired of letting the ingrown hairs heal up (and there are many with us) and it dawned on me that I have been living without a baby-smooth shave on my face for many years, so why would I think my head would be different? I havent dug into the archives very deeply, but maybe there is some info on waxing your head or using Depilatory (hair removing cream) for that baby-smooth feel. I would be interested to know if those methods are a viable option for us. Meanwhile, hang in there. We will all figure this out together. That is why we are here as "Brothers in Arms", so to speak. Good luck and keep us posted.