Ok Brothers and SLY sisters..If you are into reading self-help books or watching DVD's along those lines I would love to recommend a book called The Power is Within you by Louise Hay. She also has out a fantstic DVD called You Can Heal Your Life. She is one cool lady and it will really help you if you are having issues with self confidence. If you are interested you can also tune into HayHouse Radio via the internet where you will find a host of self-help teachers you can listen to throughout the day including my favorite spiritual teacher and another bald guy. Dr. Wayne W. Dyer.