Confidence and Success > How to Build Confidence
Talking to People....
JasonR:
--- Quote from: The Anvil on September 15, 2008, 05:12:22 AM ---
--- Quote from: BlackJamesRackham on August 18, 2008, 08:38:44 PM ---Plant a 100 seeds, and one will grow. So, talk to a 100 women, and at least 1 will turn out well.
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I see where you are going with this but when it comes to the matters of the heart (haha, I really just wrote that) I take a different road. (The 100 seeds may work for other parts though ;D) While looking for women is something we all do, I only concentrate my charms and efforts with girls that I seem to have a real pull towards. I am still polite with everyone, but would rather put my efforts towards girls I think are also putting effort towards me. I also find that when I am not like every other guy throwing myself at a girl with stupid lines and stunts, she wants to know why and starts talking to me! This may not work with everybody, but I like it.
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Just depends on your goals. Serious girlfriend or one night stand? :)
GASlick:
I am NOT shy! I just walk up and say, "hey, how are you today?"
I'm married, so I don't really date a whole lot any more. ;D Wife frowns on it. I am a very big flirt though. My wife will say to me, "You were flirting with her". i don't realize I do it. I think it is just part of my personality. I'm also in sales for a living, so being outgoing is good for me.
I make it a rule to be nice to everyone unless they take it for granted. Once you cross that line, :x!
You remember Designing Women? Julia "the terminator" Sugarbaker???
champ007:
I find walking up to a woman and saying, "Whats up biotch?" works really well.
You get a quick read and can continue the convo or move on... sometimes very quickly! :)
GASlick:
--- Quote from: champ007 on September 16, 2008, 08:24:10 PM ---I find walking up to a woman and saying, "Whats up biotch?" works really well.
You get a quick read and can continue the convo or move on... sometimes very quickly! :)
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get right to the point huh Champ? I bet your a blast to go drinking with.
champ007:
--- Quote from: GASlick on September 16, 2008, 08:26:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: champ007 on September 16, 2008, 08:24:10 PM ---I find walking up to a woman and saying, "Whats up biotch?" works really well.
You get a quick read and can continue the convo or move on... sometimes very quickly! :)
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get right to the point huh Champ? I bet your a blast to go drinking with.
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I'm kinda like the mystery koolaid, never know what will happen.
It's never dull though 8)
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