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Re: Hitting on the bartender at your favorite watering hole...
« Reply #45 on: August 07, 2008, 06:04:46 AM »
Ok... just read this thread.. and Black... HOLDUP!!
Best advice... from TY... but even still... think about it. This is your comfortable zone... where you can hit on patrons and still come back the next week. You know who is usual and who can be zoned in on for the night.
Are you wanting to tag the bartender or start some kind of ..dare I say the word... relationship?
If its just a tag, even a prospect for a occasional tag, then you need to make it known at the get go. No harm no foul. If its a relationship, you will need to find another bar once in it. Be prepared to make the sacrifice.

Lets take for instance my local, there is a bartender there who I have had conversation, had her show me her perfect breast, and I have told her that one day I am going to take her home with me and knock the bottom out...we have had some interesting conversations. I have even been introduced to her parents....
I have yet to tag her because I have not had the definate agreement... yet.

Timmj, I wish I made the outing... but then again can you imagine if I did how much money we would be paying out for pics not to be published  :o

Good advice bro, thanks!

Just to update...I actually haven't been back in a couple of months. Weekends have just been busy with other parties, weddings, birthdays, etc and so I haven't made it back there. Hopefully this weekend. I think I need to think about what Champ just said though.
My first trip to what would become my favorite watering hole in Japan, the 19-year-old bar hostess asked for my card. I had my drinks and went home. She was ringing my doorbell later that night after the bar closed.

You have to have the alpha male aura to get those results. They can smell confidence.

hope you got your hours worth  O0
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Re: Hitting on the bartender at your favorite watering hole...
« Reply #46 on: August 07, 2008, 06:20:56 AM »
Ok... just read this thread.. and Black... HOLDUP!!
Best advice... from TY... but even still... think about it. This is your comfortable zone... where you can hit on patrons and still come back the next week. You know who is usual and who can be zoned in on for the night.
Are you wanting to tag the bartender or start some kind of ..dare I say the word... relationship?
If its just a tag, even a prospect for a occasional tag, then you need to make it known at the get go. No harm no foul. If its a relationship, you will need to find another bar once in it. Be prepared to make the sacrifice.

Lets take for instance my local, there is a bartender there who I have had conversation, had her show me her perfect breast, and I have told her that one day I am going to take her home with me and knock the bottom out...we have had some interesting conversations. I have even been introduced to her parents....
I have yet to tag her because I have not had the definate agreement... yet.

Timmj, I wish I made the outing... but then again can you imagine if I did how much money we would be paying out for pics not to be published  :o

Good advice bro, thanks!

Just to update...I actually haven't been back in a couple of months. Weekends have just been busy with other parties, weddings, birthdays, etc and so I haven't made it back there. Hopefully this weekend. I think I need to think about what Champ just said though.
My first trip to what would become my favorite watering hole in Japan, the 19-year-old bar hostess asked for my card. I had my drinks and went home. She was ringing my doorbell later that night after the bar closed.

You have to have the alpha male aura to get those results. They can smell confidence.

hope you got your hours worth  O0

Is one hour all you can get out of Mr. MagmaBabe? I feel sorry for you.  :'(

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Re: Hitting on the bartender at your favorite watering hole...
« Reply #47 on: August 07, 2008, 06:38:43 AM »
Time.....Last time I was in London there were refurbishing Big Ben.  Am I going to get to see it in all its glory if we make the trip there Magma?
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Re: Hitting on the bartender at your favorite watering hole...
« Reply #48 on: August 07, 2008, 06:52:59 AM »
Ok... just read this thread.. and Black... HOLDUP!!
Best advice... from TY... but even still... think about it. This is your comfortable zone... where you can hit on patrons and still come back the next week. You know who is usual and who can be zoned in on for the night.
Are you wanting to tag the bartender or start some kind of ..dare I say the word... relationship?
If its just a tag, even a prospect for a occasional tag, then you need to make it known at the get go. No harm no foul. If its a relationship, you will need to find another bar once in it. Be prepared to make the sacrifice.

Lets take for instance my local, there is a bartender there who I have had conversation, had her show me her perfect breast, and I have told her that one day I am going to take her home with me and knock the bottom out...we have had some interesting conversations. I have even been introduced to her parents....
I have yet to tag her because I have not had the definate agreement... yet.

Timmj, I wish I made the outing... but then again can you imagine if I did how much money we would be paying out for pics not to be published  :o

Good advice bro, thanks!

Just to update...I actually haven't been back in a couple of months. Weekends have just been busy with other parties, weddings, birthdays, etc and so I haven't made it back there. Hopefully this weekend. I think I need to think about what Champ just said though.
My first trip to what would become my favorite watering hole in Japan, the 19-year-old bar hostess asked for my card. I had my drinks and went home. She was ringing my doorbell later that night after the bar closed.

You have to have the alpha male aura to get those results. They can smell confidence.

hope you got your hours worth  O0

Is one hour all you can get out of Mr. MagmaBabe? I feel sorry for you.  :'(


I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances ~  Martha Washington

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Re: Hitting on the bartender at your favorite watering hole...
« Reply #49 on: August 07, 2008, 06:54:38 AM »
Time.....Last time I was in London there were refurbishing Big Ben.  Am I going to get to see it in all its glory if we make the trip there Magma?

I can't see that being a problem, depends how much time you guy's have on your hands  ;)
I am still determined to be cheerful and happy, in whatever situation I may be; for I have also learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends upon our dispositions, and not upon our circumstances ~  Martha Washington

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Re: Hitting on the bartender at your favorite watering hole...
« Reply #50 on: August 07, 2008, 11:36:31 AM »
Ok... just read this thread.. and Black... HOLDUP!!
Best advice... from TY... but even still... think about it. This is your comfortable zone... where you can hit on patrons and still come back the next week. You know who is usual and who can be zoned in on for the night.
Are you wanting to tag the bartender or start some kind of ..dare I say the word... relationship?
If its just a tag, even a prospect for a occasional tag, then you need to make it known at the get go. No harm no foul. If its a relationship, you will need to find another bar once in it. Be prepared to make the sacrifice.

Lets take for instance my local, there is a bartender there who I have had conversation, had her show me her perfect breast, and I have told her that one day I am going to take her home with me and knock the bottom out...we have had some interesting conversations. I have even been introduced to her parents....
I have yet to tag her because I have not had the definate agreement... yet.

Timmj, I wish I made the outing... but then again can you imagine if I did how much money we would be paying out for pics not to be published  :o

Good advice bro, thanks!

Just to update...I actually haven't been back in a couple of months. Weekends have just been busy with other parties, weddings, birthdays, etc and so I haven't made it back there. Hopefully this weekend. I think I need to think about what Champ just said though.
My first trip to what would become my favorite watering hole in Japan, the 19-year-old bar hostess asked for my card. I had my drinks and went home. She was ringing my doorbell later that night after the bar closed.

You have to have the alpha male aura to get those results. They can smell confidence.

hope you got your hours worth  O0

Is one hour all you can get out of Mr. MagmaBabe? I feel sorry for you.  :'(




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Re: Hitting on the bartender at your favorite watering hole...
« Reply #51 on: August 07, 2008, 03:26:11 PM »
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