For a 2nd date is a 4some a deal breaker?

[PBurke]

i know. i was just thinking of my friends. ha ha ha

[no1birdman]

Hi, is the4 some 3 ladies and i guy if so ok , done that, but would not like2 and 2, not on 2nd date . Anyway I am a bit to old for more than 1 now I would have a heart attack.I have just gone for the world record of 3 hours for making love, nearly did it only failed by 2 hrs 59 mins 30 secs LOL

[PBurke]

.I have just gone for the world record of 3 hours for making love, nearly did it only failed by 2 hrs 59 mins 30 secs LOL

ok i don't feel so bad. ha ha ha

[buddha]

In my younger days I sometimes dated more than one woman concurrently but was never with more than one at a time. Looking back that was definitely for the best, being confined in a closed room with 2 angry and unsatisfied women could have become really dangerous for my health in a very short time.
But I would definitely be up front about what you like. Maybe even on the first date. Better to find out early that it creates a problem for a potential mate than after you have become emotionally invested in that person and then have them run off.
But I'm betting that you already knew that.

[FunshinePa]

hehe Pburke.. Well in that case.. hmm you got any single friends looking?


Buddha... I do know already. Thats whats sucks. I guess I just posted out of frustration. Being honest and up front is an obstacle.

I don't want a swinging relationship... I want my own man. It's just I feel the need to make sure that when I meet someone they know that most of my married friends have been sex friends while I'm single. But that is what scares them off and/or  they just want a hit and run. Which is fine by me if thats what they decide after hearing that, but I'm not always looking to ADD to those kinds of friends. Does that make sense? I don't need more sex friends. I want a relationship! But try to be honest and upfront. Sucks to be me!

[Jdogs Better Half]

If you don't want a swinging relationship right now maybe you should focus on that when you go on a date, I get  that you want to be honest and tell them about who you are from the start, but it might be confusing for the men? Maybe they are thinking thats what you will expect of them in the future and thats why they freak out?

I think you gotta know when hold em and know when to fold em, maybe you just  need to be in the moment and enjoy their company and not tell them every intimate detail from your past relationships if moving forward what you want is to be in a relationship with just THAT man - then tell him when its appropriate.

I guess when its the "right" man he wont care, he would be so into you that it wont matter! You just gotta find him!

So glad I don't have to "date" I don't think I would know how to! haha

[PBurke]

hehe Pburke.. Well in that case.. hmm you got any single friends looking?

yeah, but they look like me! and that is scary!

[FunshinePa]

hehe Pburke.. Well in that case.. hmm you got any single friends looking?

yeah, but they look like me! and that is scary!

PBurke... And?



Jdogs Better Half , thank you  for your words. I am only trying to figure the men out. Really... I'm trying hard.

[PBurke]

and what? most of my friends are bald and we resemble each other.

[FunshinePa]

and what? most of my friends are bald and we resemble each other.

And I'm OK with that. I like it! a lot!

[PBurke]

we are all about 5' 1" and overweight. but we are bald dammit. ha ha hahahaha

[FunshinePa]

I'm still OK with that.I'm 4'15 

[BaldRob]

I'm the Nomad I can pitch a tent anywhere.....

I don't even think you would qualify for a "pup" tent...

Sorry... you hang a curve ball like that, it's gonna get hit!

[GASlick]

This just reminds me of how thankful I am that I don't have to date anymore.
To complicated.


three hours?  thats all?  lol

[nomad]

I'm the Nomad I can pitch a tent anywhere.....

I don't even think you would qualify for a "pup" tent...

Sorry... you hang a curve ball like that, it's gonna get hit!

Its all good brother

I never said what size tent just that I can pitch one