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Re: Please Help dudes!
« Reply #15 on: May 12, 2008, 10:00:05 AM »
I have had a receding hairline for my entire life. I also have baby fine hair. During high school it was a major issue as even a slight breeze would mess up my doo. Once I reached the age of about 26, I started crew cutting because I couldn't stand the constant hair combings that I needed to do to look neat and presentable. It was just shy of a year ago that I decided to shave my hair completely off. No more hair issues for me. Hell, it is only hair. Yeah I caught some ridicule for it. But those same people that ridiculed me, accept it, as I do not hear any comments from them. My wife, she doesn't really like my head shaved, as she sometimes asks me to grow my hair back. But I will not do it. I do not ask her to style her hair any certain way, and I expect the same from her.

Anyway a little pick me up that happened a few months ago. I was entering a convenience store one day, and I held the door open for a lady who was also entering the store. She commented on my shaved head, stating that she loved it. I told her thank you, and that not many folks appreciate it like she does. What she said next has stuck with me and probably will forever. She simply stated that I would be surprised how many women really do like the bald look. Women do not always project how they actually feel. Thus making them very difficult to read. I will take a womans word on how women feel on a subject as truth. So don't worry about how women will feel about a bald head. Most of them really like it.

As stated before in previous posts, you really just need to accept that your AA is part of your life, and live with it. Only then will your confidence improve. And that is what women really find sexy.

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Re: Please Help dudes!
« Reply #16 on: May 12, 2008, 11:13:29 AM »
Welcome Chris!!!!  The guys have given you some great advice, I can't add much to that.  I'm glad you found us.  Look around, there is a ton of great advice, tips, suggestions and even some honest opinions. 

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Re: Please Help dudes!
« Reply #17 on: May 12, 2008, 09:18:21 PM »
well as they all said good advice..i have to agree..i have been bald for 12years now and i don't regret it nor do i make fun of other bald persons due to medical or any other reason...everyone here will agree to this bald is beautiful and the way of the sly...ans i am sorry sly is sexy to A-lot of fine and not so fine ladies...once they start asking you to let them kiss it and rub it you will forget about the other stuff promise....( yes they do ask to do it)....all i can say is do what is in your heart...makes you happy ..not others..
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Re: Please Help dudes!
« Reply #18 on: May 27, 2008, 10:46:58 AM »
Welcome to the SBG site Chris, glad you found us. The guys here have given some wonderful advice and I echo each one.
Remember, when you really get down to it, your confidence and soul should come from within, not from your hair.
Leave your memories of HS behind, you're a man now, and women like to see a fellow who's comfortable with himself.

Shave it down, be the man you can be, and embrace your freedom!       O0   

 



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