Confidence and Success > Relationships/Dating
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Argyle:
Not sure if this is relevant, but I have been in my current relationship for two years, very happy and definitely the one. As a consequence I am definitely not looking. I am also the kind fo guy who would prefer a few beers with his mates in a country pub than a loud friday night on the town (i live in the english countryside what can you do?).
A few months back a went on two stag do's in very quick succession, I wasnt looking but somehow on both occasions ended up being chatted up by very hot women. My point is that I have never been that confident with the ladies, and am in the same situation of all my success having been from being asked rather than the other way around yet, when you are putting out the image of just having a good time and having no interest in finding someone then that seems to be the most attractive.
As I say, not really sure what the point of that was, but it is late here so i thought i would come on here and say a few random things!!
Tyler:
--- Quote from: Argyle on January 04, 2007, 03:13:36 PM ---A few months back a went on two stag do's in very quick succession, I wasnt looking but somehow on both occasions ended up being chatted up by very hot women. My point is that I have never been that confident with the ladies, and am in the same situation of all my success having been from being asked rather than the other way around yet, when you are putting out the image of just having a good time and having no interest in finding someone then that seems to be the most attractive.
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This is very true. A couple of my fraternity bros and I have an annual guys trip. For the most part all of us are married or in a serious relationship, so we're just there to have a good time and not really looking for ladies. Though, every year there will be a crew of women that approach us. One year we were in Palm Springs hanging out at the pool and the next thing we know we were surrounded by women.
Noner:
--- Quote from: spaceape48 on December 29, 2006, 07:34:18 PM ---Yeah, I'm def not looking for the one or anyone really. I can't remember the last time I actually asked a girl out. The girls that act attracted to me-I'm not attracted to. It's like prison in that way,lol. It's cool though because at least I'm finally getting myself together. These past few months I've been changing and others can see it too. I'm not stressin over it anymore.
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That's the way it should be. Lay-days smell a dude who is stressin about them and it smells like funky corn chips and rotten eggs to them.
Act like you got your shnizittle in check and that your a confident sly bald guy, and you smell like steak and lobster when you pass buy.
Then, if you can dance............you smell like diamonds!
I bet you didn't think diamonds smell, but they do!
Noner
PigPen:
Yeah they smell like $ $ $ $ $ $ $
8)
Robmeister:
--- Quote from: Noner on January 04, 2007, 04:20:57 PM --- Lay-days smell a dude who is stressin
about them and it smells like funky corn chips and rotten eggs to them.
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No doubt about it.
Same principle in sales, right?.......If a customer "smells" that you really need the sale it turns them off. If they get the impression you would just as soon show them the door, you're the one they want to work with. 8)
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