Lol, great line. I feel ya on the lady problems though. I ruined myself back when I was younger. I had no shame and would just go up and ask out any gal- even the ones that the poular guys dated. I got rejected and laughed at a lot, thus crushing my self esteem. It sucks, but I'm working on it. Thirty pounds dropped and with it I'm gaining back my self-esteem. I'll have to check out that book though. I think my other problem is that I don't recognize when a gal is interested. Who knows-
Quote from: spaceape48 on December 28, 2006, 08:45:57 PMLol, great line. I feel ya on the lady problems though. I ruined myself back when I was younger. I had no shame and would just go up and ask out any gal- even the ones that the poular guys dated. I got rejected and laughed at a lot, thus crushing my self esteem. It sucks, but I'm working on it. Thirty pounds dropped and with it I'm gaining back my self-esteem. I'll have to check out that book though. I think my other problem is that I don't recognize when a gal is interested. Who knows-My advice to you is that don't worry about "the one" yet... you're still young! You still have a long time to figure out who and what you want in a relationship. Hell, I'm 39 and I still don't know yet...Funny how things work... most times when I've gotten into relationships (and married for awhile) is that 99% of them happen when I swore off dating!
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Quote from: pburke on December 29, 2006, 07:45:48 PMthe road to enlightenment from my vast knowledge of nothing. Don't sell yourself short, buddy
Yeah, I'm def not looking for the one or anyone really. I can't remember the last time I actually asked a girl out. The girls that act attracted to me-I'm not attracted to. It's like prison in that way,lol. It's cool though because at least I'm finally getting myself together. These past few months I've been changing and others can see it too. I'm not stressin over it anymore.
A few months back a went on two stag do's in very quick succession, I wasnt looking but somehow on both occasions ended up being chatted up by very hot women. My point is that I have never been that confident with the ladies, and am in the same situation of all my success having been from being asked rather than the other way around yet, when you are putting out the image of just having a good time and having no interest in finding someone then that seems to be the most attractive.
Lay-days smell a dude who is stressin about them and it smells like funky corn chips and rotten eggs to them.