I think we build up the anxiety in ourselves about shaving. My advice is to buzz it shorter and shorter to get use to being hairless. And then just take the razor to your head. I bought a headblade and agonized about using for three months. One night, I just popped a beer and decided to get to work on shaving my head. After I shaved I knew right away the look was for me. I had two weeks of relapse in the last year. I grew some hair for the holidays. When I look back at the picks, I realize how bad I looked with my hair. Receding hairline and graying. Ugh.It's good to be sly.
Combovers fool nobody, regardless of how big or how small the bald area is. The remaining hair turns gray and white over time. Why deal with it?Three and a half years ago, I took my wife to Valentine's Day dinner and noticed a couple at a nearby table. She was a beautiful, pregnant lady. Her husband had a shaved head and a hoop earring. Apparently, she liked his look and it certainly worked for him!
I realize there are multitudes of men in their early and mid twenties who dread the thoughts and fears that they will never meet women who will find them attractive without a full head of hair. That is so much crap. Those poor souls on HLT ought to grow a pair, get a set of clippers, shave it off, and hit the gym.
f you're 23, forget about a steady relationship for a while. Establish a career. Save some money. Buy a home. Have fun. Everything changes after marriage. It's a trade off and you have to be ready for it.