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Deciding to give it a go-
BaldRob:
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--- Quote from: David on December 21, 2006, 06:33:46 PM ---If it's bottom of the ninth in game seven she can wait. There are some things more important than relationship stuff at times. No way i'm discussing that at that time.
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It's clear you're not married, David. ;)
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Even if I was married, there are times and places for that. What do you think your wife would say if you talked during her favorite sitcom? Shut up, go in the other room, I'm watching my show. No different here.
I would politely say, I am watching the ninth inning of the final game of the World Series, when this ends, we can discuss whatever you want to discuss.
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I don't want to discourage you from getting married because it's much better than being single. But, good luck with that! Women don't think that way. We would never talk to them about anything important when they are watching a sitcom. But, when they want to talk to us about something important, in their mind, it's MORE important than ANYTHING you could be doing at that time. Even the 9th inning of game 7.
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I wouldn't go as far as saying being married is better than being single... each has it's obvious advantages and disadvantages. Which is better is a personal opinion. :P
However, I will whole heartedly agree... when they want to talk, it's time to talk, no matter what's on, what time it is, where you are, etc! When I was married a long, long time ago... she used to want to talk as I was falling asleep! It's a different mindset than the way we think... Like you said, "We would never talk to them about anything important when they are watching a sitcom" because we would look at it as "hey, that's there favorite show, I'll wait til it's over to talk to her."
wpruitt:
Well, to summarize what we are all saying .... it's on her timetable and not ours! The worst for me was a chick who choose Atlanta rush hour traffic to say "we need to talk". The most I could do was say "uh huh" ... or wreck!
PBurke:
I do agree that when she wanyts to talk we should talk. but why do they sit quiet for hours and wait until the worst time( at least for us) to decide to talk. i just want to understand the reasoning for the timing.
BaldRob:
--- Quote from: pburke on December 22, 2006, 07:19:49 AM ---I do agree that when she wanyts to talk we should talk. but why do they sit quiet for hours and wait until the worst time( at least for us) to decide to talk. i just want to understand the reasoning for the timing.
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That's the universal unanswered question... ???
PBurke:
maybe one day??!!
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