Ladies And Sly!!!

[Dimiakira]

Hi Guys, Me again

its been 3 weeks of sly and want to give you guys a bit of an update.

1st of its going really great and this site is a blessing. Fantastic site . great people and great support.

I want to ask something which i have noticed about the Ladies after going sly and tell me if you had similar experiences.

First of i have had more dates then i think i have at any point in my life. One of my friends said infront of her boyfriend "Wow Dimi you look more cute everytime" (dont think she realised i went completly sly as i have been doin #0 for a while) which made her boyfriend really jelous. wahahahahah

I have a few good stories but ill save them for next time

Just a question. let me know what you think.

I think that girls in general find bald guys by instinct attractive but past events in the media have made bald men play unfavourable role (geek, loser etc) and more recently the media is starting to favour us maybe a little

i met this girl this weekend and she doesnt find bald guys attractive when i met her and by the end of the night i took her home. so what is that saying

so i figure subconciously women find bald men attractive but conciously some media has made them question this. I mean its natural why would mother nature implany this to so many men.

Maybe its none of that. maybe confidence overrides all flaws. and plus most girls would comprise for a strong , kind and loving man rather then just for hair

after that girl and her friends are starting to actually saying it is atractive. very masculine so go figure. maybe we are starting some sort of movement

or maybe the movement was there and i have just become a part of it

I love SLY why didnt i do this earlier

[PBurke]

this exactly right bro. it seems like the confidence boost makes up for any flaws.(although i don't think sly is a flaw)  i found that many women like the look, secretly or otherwise. but i think the biggest part of it is the confidence. glad you are enjoying it bro. keep making the lay-days like the sly gentlemen.

[jusbnme]

First of all, a big CONGRATS  on the improved success with the lay-days.  Good for you bro.

Yeah, you're right about what you said.  Bald wasn't "the thing" a while back but it is being accepted a lot more lately.  I guess some of those women are from the group that got brainwashed into believing that bald is bad or something to frown upon.  But with more and more guys taking the bald route it's being forced on society to accept it now whether they like it or not. 

THAT'S RIGHT!!! WE'RE COMING AND YOU BETTER BE READY WORLD!!!

Ok, sorry.  Zoned out there for a second.    J/K 

[schro]

Sly is all about attitude, and it sounds like you got the right attitude going, Dimi.
It's clearly a sign of confidence to shave the noggin'. Ladies dig confidence.

[SonOfKrypton]

Ever since going sly, I've formed a theory and have come to the same conclusions you have bro.  Women look at me differently and just in general act differently around me.  A week ago, two older women in my office (Im 24, one of them was 50, the other was a lil younger) said "Nick, you know what I like your new look.  It's cute".  And I turn to the other student who works with us, and Im like "Dude, what the f**k.  Did you hear that?  She said I looked "cute".  "Cute" is a fuckin word you use for little puppies, or for little birds who fall out of their nests and helplessly flail around...And she just used that adjective on me!  What the hell?".  After saying that, the other woman says "Ok, then she meant damn sexy".  Then I was like "See, thats what im talking about.  Thank you Julie!". hahahaha. 

But yea, anyway, my theory is basically this.  Men, and women are interested and attracted to (on a physical level at least) physical attributes their gender doesn't have.  For men (or more specifically for black men since I know this is what turns me on) that would be hips (men don't have wide hips), a curvy ass (men don't have that), tits (duh), a gorgeous face (duh), and long hair (most men don't have).  For women, it would be abs (womens abs are not liek ours), a nice face (duh), a nice muscular lean body period, and with the head it doesnt matter if you have hair since all guys have hair.  I mean, its not something that just STANDS OUT and a guy with a full head of hair is just another guy with a full head of hair ya know?  But, when a guy shaves his head, most chicks don't see that a somethin a lot of females are doing (duh) yet we pull it off CONFIDENTLY.  No wonder it turns em on.

[Mikekoz13]

I'm with Paul on this one............. it's about the confidence. if you were confident before SLYNESS you will be even more confident. If you weren't confident before SLYNESS you will be more confident since you won't worry if that good lookin' gal is lookin' at your bald spot or MPB. Bald spots and MPB make a guy look older..... a sleek dome makes a man stand out, look great and younger, and I think subconciously most people know that for a man to go SLY he has to be confident.

[BALDANDRE]

Awesome bro!

I think it might be like dating a biker dude or bad boy for girls...they find it intriging that in a hair dominated world, dudes actually choice and dig having a totally bald head!

Thanks for yet another encouraging post for newbies!

[Bald_Okie]

 Ladies dig confidence.


I think Schro hit it right on the head.

[Adam]

Dude, I was in the same boat you are several years ago.  A female friend of mine convinced me to go sly.  I was thinning already, and she told me it would take a few years off of my look, so I did.  The confidence didn't come right away, but it did come.  The ladies love it.  I believe it is mainly due to the boosted confidence, along with a change in trends and personal preference.  A lot more women like a bald dude over someone less folically challenged nowadays.  Good luck to you, and be sure to post up some stories.

[Jer]

It's definitely the confidence.  I had been thinning for quite some time, but I had a problem where my hair was quite thick.  So if I didn't take at least 10 minutes to dump half a bottle of gel into it, I'd end up with a big red fro.  I was always so self conscious about it too, and what made it worse was when it would puff into the fro, I'd have people comparing me to Ronald McDonald cause I'm so pasty white and had the red goatee too!  Now how is that, to be compared to a clown?

Since going sly I have nothing to worry about, and walk into any place and I can see all the heads turning my way.  The confidence was subconscious as I just wasn't even thinking of hair since I have none left.  The first time I went to a bar after going sly, I had all kinds of women coming up to me to give me a rub.  I have a friend who has a neatly trimmed mohawk and a spiderweb tattoo going up the side of his head from his ear.  Normally all the women are flocking to him because that's not something you see and he was getting jealous because they weren't paying him as much attention as before when we'd go out to the bars.

As for looking younger, I get the complete opposite, and I love it.  I'll be 27 this year, but usually people only give me 22 or 23, now everyone tells me I look around 30, which is perfectly fine with me.

[champ007]

i met this girl this weekend and she doesnt find bald guys attractive when i met her and by the end of the night i took her home. so what is that saying

Thats telling you that despite what a woman thinks she finds attractive, you can still get her interested if you are confident in yourself.
You will find that most people can be open minded, there are still a few that have blinders on, but your positive attitude can still affect even those. Just don't cross over to the cocky side... things go downhill quickly at that stage!

Kepp on rockin!! 

[nomad]

Dimi i'm in the same boat, I've had a great deal of success since goin' sly.

The one thing women are attracted to above all else is confidence and when your sly and have that, nothing else matters.