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#15 by PianoMan on 19 Feb, 2008 13:47
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WOW Tim, thank you for sharing. It makes you realize that no matter how busy our own lives are that we need to look out for each other. Sometimes it's the little things that make the biggest impact.
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#16 by wpruitt on 19 Feb, 2008 20:21
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Hey Folks, I think, indirectly, Tim has given us a challenge. There are a lot of older, lonely people out there who would enjoy our company and companionship. The other week, I went to see my uncle who is 101 years old. He asked me to bring some quail back from the hunt for him. We just sat around his kitchen and shot the breeze. Another favorite of mine (may she RIP) was an aunt in her 90's. I had more (and better) political debates with her than I did with my peer group. The insights some of these older folks can offer us, and the life lesson they give, are better that what we get from our peer group. Take some time to show a bit of interest in an older person. You'll be the better for it ... and so will they.
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#17 by Timmay on 19 Feb, 2008 21:00
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Thanks Pruitt, that was thoughtful of you to say that. Really I guess if you get down to it....maybe I was indirectly suggesting. What would it hurt? If you have some elderly family members that you havent talked to in a long time, why not just pay them a visit. Even just a 30 minute visit to these people mean alot. And 30 minutes out of our time is less valuable than what you will learn from just listening to what they have to tell you. I dont know of one person who would say they walked away from it and was bored. Sitting there talking to them is Living History, something that will never be replaced. So here I go, Im gonna challenge you all. Go out, talk with a family member, or just anyone who has been there done that. It doesnt even have to be a family member. Go visit someone that you sorta know...but never really got to talk to them. Im sure they would enjoy it alot. Then come back here and tell us all what you found. I am sure you will have tons to unload once you get back. Is it a deal? Im not gonna put a time frame on it....just do it at your leisure. But I bet you that the sooner you do it....the more exciting it would be. I cant wait to hear the stories.
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#18 by xnewyawka on 20 Feb, 2008 11:53
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Tim, that was such a nice thing to do. It really hit home with me.
I know a lot of kidding goes on in here, but I think you are one of the nicest and thoughtful guys in here.
As many of you know, we've relocated to AZ from the east (NY). I left behind all of my family and I especially miss my Grandmother. She practically raised me and my sibs, but that's another story.
She lives in DE, she's ninety-eight, and my sister and brother in law pretty much care for her and my aunt.
I would visit with them at least once a month, and of course on all the holidays. We would always bring the things she missed from NY- good pastas, ravioli, breads and other things you just can't get.
Anyway, since we've moved I haven't been able to visit and when I speak to her, she always asks when are we coming back. I feel so bad, I think she thought we were just going to go try it out and then come back. I have been a bit lax on calling her, and when I read Tim's post, I gotta admit I got a bit teary myself.
Guy's, he absolutely right. Make it a point to visit or call if you have any elderly relatives or friends, you will make their day, and if you can spend time talking they have a lot to say.
Remember, they've lived a life and experienced many things, just like you are doing right now, even more so. One day we will be in the same situation, hopefully, and I am sure you would want someone to visit and talk and be interested in you.
Sorry for the long post, and thanks again Tim, for making people think.
Joe