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baldrev:
Ok, so I just started and now I’m going to get in people’s faces. I’m sorry, I just can’t leave this alone, it’s part of why I signed up.

Come on! Aren’t some of us being just a bit hypocritical? I mean, “I shave my head and if they don’t like it, they don’t have to be around me,” “It’s who I am. They should love me for that, not my hair,” then “I like a woman to have long hair. Down to her shoulder, back, butt.” What about loving them for who they are?

Today is my anniversary. I have been married to my beautiful bride for thirty-one years. She had long hair when I met her and wears it short now. I love her for who she is, not her hair. I don’t care that it’s short or that it is going grey. I don’t care that her face has more character in it, read wrinkles, than it used to. I love her for what’s inside. If we think people should accept us with our shaved heads for who we are, not what we have on top, shouldn’t we give others the same respect?

Sorry about preaching. It’s in the blood.

Robmeister:
HHhhhhmmmm.....good points and well taken.

I think your sorta comparing apples to oranges, Rev.

Taste is taste.....if yer "out there" and single, IMO the purposeful SLY look projects all sorts a stuff about a dude.   Sure not all womanfolk are attracted to the SLY look.  AHHHhhh......but many are  :@`

Loving someone for who they are comes in, I think, when you already know the person and they decide to do "something else" with their style.

For us married folk.  I have enjoyed my wife to experiment with all sorts of "doos" .... I don't take sucha  strong stance.....if she likes it, I'm happy that she's happy.

Sorta befuddles me how some wives take that strong stance.  My wife prefers the hair, since I still have pretty full coverage....but she doesn't take a strong stance.

baldrev:
I guess you're right about getting to know someone as compared to meeting someone new. It just seems that you would not want to make a decision about whom you like or don't without checking who they are.

Mikekoz13:
I accept every individual for what and who they are as well as the way they treat others. They could be an orange space alien with one tit and and their butt where their face is supposed to be and i wouldn't care as long as they were cool.

schro:
I'm with Mike on this, Rev.
My wife hates it, I told her (i.e. YELLED) GET OVER IT and she backed off ....felt good to do that.
Like your wife, the Lovely Mrs. Schro's appearance has changed since we met 15 yrs ago. Yet, she's just as beautiful now as she was then. Does she look different? Yeah. Has she changed her hairstyle? Yeah. Does her face & body have more "character"? Yeah. But she's still the love of my life.

If people object to it, screw 'em. I wear my hair (or the absence of it) the way I want. They can do what they please with theirs.


By the way, Happy Anniversary Rev.

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