Truly well spoken all around Bros!! Man, some people big bucks to hear stuff like this.
Hugh,the way I see it, women are experts at reading between lines. Us guys see whats in front of us pretty clear cut and dry... So that being said, walk, talk, carry yourself like you're a million bucks! Your confidence will keep people wondering: "theres more to this man, but I can't quite put my finger on what that may be!"Thats intrigue, my friend Walk like you're ten feet tall and you will be! Not telling you to be a windbag, just think about all the things you think makes you a cool person and be confident someone will see it..If they're not interested, there will be another one for another day; and at least your standing tall like you don't give a crap..Joseph
Confidence is everything. i always considered myself an average looking guy with a lot of confidence and a great personality.Women love a confident man with a great sense of humor. Confidence will lead you to NOT being shy. Women love a guy that approaches them.My friends all used to say (in my dating heyday before a got married), "HOW DO YOU GET SUCH GOOD LOOKING WOMEN TO GO OUT WITH YOU"?My response......... 'I ASK THEM OUT".The way I always looked at it was that if a woman said no, I probably wouldn't like her anyway..... her loss.This isn't meant to sound arrogant.... just confident...... a fine line no doubt. Mike
This thread is just what I needed to hear...or read
Some good advice above but.....My two bits is that confidence isn't something that just appears overnight. You have to build it by doing positive things and then your confidence grows accordingly. Think of things to do to build your confidence with women. Talk to women in the line at a bank, in an elevator, at Micky D's (try not to act/look like a stalker though) Talk to some "friends" that are girls first maybe and practice on them Join some clubs, groups, take some classes and immerse yourself in things you like or want to learn... skydive, scuba, book clubs, wine classes -- whatever floats your boat -- as you make yourself more interesting you build confidence and the ball starts rolling
hi guys ive got to be honest im abit like hugh_fran. i used to be mr confidence and had the gift of the gab i ever date an underwear model when i was 19. good bloody morning. she was hot and gorgeous.... but once i had my car crash and i started to lose my hair my confidence went down hill and once my ex started to shout baldy across the pub it really all went. im starting to get it back but i still have trouble aprroaching ladies to chat too them and do often chat via the net but i still dont have avast amount of confidence