I think this is just plain the BEST post I have EVER read on this site.
Not only is it insightful and positive beyond measure it is tightly knit, consice, doesn't ramble; gets right to the heart of the matter.
I think the best thing you say is how loosing one's hair is devastating to any man's self image ( So true) ; and / but that going sly can completly liberate a man from that devastation.
My hat's off to you .
John