New, been lurking for many years.I started losing my hair in my mid-20s. Went from buzzing my hair to zero grade soon as. I know for me my life has done a 180 since. I'd hoped that as I got older I'd of met women who weren't that put off by it. I'm in my 40s now haven't dated since. Do you have to change your outlook and expectations? I find it quite difficult.
Sorry dude, yeah I understand how this feels. I feel the same, not really having much luck myself with the women that I want to date and find attractive. Like you, I seemed to have more attention when I had hair and even a buzz cut but now it's the baldness that is a turn off. I guess it just helps to keep thinking "it only takes one" so you never know. How do you usually meet women and when you say you keep getting knocked back, you mean rejected? Is this online or when you ask them out on dates etc.?
Quote from: tryingtostaypositive on January 09, 2018, 11:35:50 AMSorry dude, yeah I understand how this feels. I feel the same, not really having much luck myself with the women that I want to date and find attractive. Like you, I seemed to have more attention when I had hair and even a buzz cut but now it's the baldness that is a turn off. I guess it just helps to keep thinking "it only takes one" so you never know. How do you usually meet women and when you say you keep getting knocked back, you mean rejected? Is this online or when you ask them out on dates etc.?Online. Just talk don't want to meet or they ghost me.
First of all, the man who chase woman is doing it wrong. Definitely the fact that you dont have a date in all this time have nothing to do with your bald head, it is all about your confidence. You have adopted this limiting belief about yourself, that because you have a shaved head no woman would like you. This is stupid and lame, stop crying and go to be the strongest version of yourself. Iam sorry, brother, but if i say kind words to you now i would not help you at all. Iam saying this with all love and kindness of my heart. We, men, have to focus on us, to society we dont have any intrinsic value, as opposite to woman that have intrinsic value (iam not going into that now). We have to conquer, to build and to grow things to have value. How is your professional life? how is your body, in terms of looks? how is going your spiritual development? how you market yourself out there? just put yourself in the world as a true conqueror, dont fucking indulgence the feminine ego, NEVER CHASE WOMAN. Develop yourself in all those topics, dont consider woman like you are demanding something from them, THEY WANT TO DEMAND SOMETHING FROM US, a man can never demand affection or emotional factors from a woman, when he does, the woman get away from him. This is something that i learned in a very painful way and iam transferring this knowledge to you guys, my bald family. A man is the security port of a woman. Once you become that, you will never have to chase woman, they will chase you. And in fact, we dont need woman, is nice to have sex once in a while, but once this become your goal of life, you are dead. With love, JC.
Quote from: wndk on February 11, 2018, 05:24:23 AMFirst of all, the man who chase woman is doing it wrong. Definitely the fact that you dont have a date in all this time have nothing to do with your bald head, it is all about your confidence. You have adopted this limiting belief about yourself, that because you have a shaved head no woman would like you. This is stupid and lame, stop crying and go to be the strongest version of yourself. Iam sorry, brother, but if i say kind words to you now i would not help you at all. Iam saying this with all love and kindness of my heart. We, men, have to focus on us, to society we dont have any intrinsic value, as opposite to woman that have intrinsic value (iam not going into that now). We have to conquer, to build and to grow things to have value. How is your professional life? how is your body, in terms of looks? how is going your spiritual development? how you market yourself out there? just put yourself in the world as a true conqueror, dont fucking indulgence the feminine ego, NEVER CHASE WOMAN. Develop yourself in all those topics, dont consider woman like you are demanding something from them, THEY WANT TO DEMAND SOMETHING FROM US, a man can never demand affection or emotional factors from a woman, when he does, the woman get away from him. This is something that i learned in a very painful way and iam transferring this knowledge to you guys, my bald family. A man is the security port of a woman. Once you become that, you will never have to chase woman, they will chase you. And in fact, we dont need woman, is nice to have sex once in a while, but once this become your goal of life, you are dead. With love, JC.I see your point and what you're trying to say is something I agree with, however you're missing out one vital point - the baldness. Most women just aren't into it. I used to be a decent looking guy when I had hair but now my shiny bald head is just unattractive. My face hasn't changed but with no hair it just ruins my look now and I've noticed how less women are into me as a result. I get far less attention than I used to, despite the fact that I'm still the same person I was, back when I did have hair.