Confidence and Success > Relationships/Dating
Does it get easier?
DoberDaddy:
I never had any problem with having a shaved head. I actually just mentioned that I decided to get a hair system, just for the f**k of it, and the only one who was upset, was my ex, who said he loves me with the big beard and shaved heads.
The other issue is that as mentioned, you don't "chase" you, go with the flow.
When you meet the right person, it just happens. I personally can relate to @reddog, I, personally, don't really like tattoos, but, in my circle, it is very hard to find someone who does not have at least one or two. So, I met a guy, he has an entire back plate and one sleave. And... we are smitten with each other. The tattoos are not even a thing, and I barely think about them.
Best of luck!
DD
USA man:
WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH!!!! Never ever ever never judge your success at dating by your success at online dating. Online dating is millions, billions, times harder than any other form of dating, you could have the most beautiful mop of hair in the world and it's still loads harder than regular dating. I could go on and on about how anti-online dating I am as a dude, for myself and for other dudes. If you find you're unsuccessful at online dating, try something else. Become active, join running clubs, do tough mudders. Hell, go to dive bars. Join clubs man. Go to church if you're religious.
Peace. We're all in this together.
DoberDaddy:
--- Quote from: USA man on February 23, 2018, 10:06:25 PM ---WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH!!!! Never ever ever never judge your success at dating by your success at online dating. Online dating is millions, billions, times harder than any other form of dating, you could have the most beautiful mop of hair in the world and it's still loads harder than regular dating. I could go on and on about how anti-online dating I am as a dude, for myself and for other dudes. If you find you're unsuccessful at online dating, try something else. Become active, join running clubs, do tough mudders. Hell, go to dive bars. Join clubs man. Go to church if you're religious.
Peace. We're all in this together.
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I will add to this and say, that in my experience, online dating, is not DATING! It's an exercise in mental masturbation. It's 99% fantasy.
tryingtostaypositive:
--- Quote from: Tyler on December 15, 2017, 01:11:22 AM ---Are you saying that now that you've started shaving that you're not able to get a date?
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Tinca tinca, how are you doing? I would like an update on your situation.
Me, I'm having the usual setbacks of being a bald guy. Women simply don't take much notice at all. The only ones that do occasionally are some average looking black girls (who I'm not really into). White girls, asian girls forget it, not interested. The proof is the reality I face every day. Also I've done this many times but tried again recently. I have a profile on a dating site currently and occasionally I'll change my pictures to how I looked about 5 years ago, when I had enough hair to make out a buzz cut, basically not bald. No doubt about it, I receive more messages than I do when I have my present pictures up of me as a baldie.
I know you guys are trying to stay positive on this forum and even my own screen name wants me to do the same, but you got to face reality to some extent. Bald guys no matter how nice looking your face might be or how tall you are, we're simply at a disadvantage. Just wish more men and women would admit to this.
tinca-tinca:
I find it very difficult not being able to have a sex life or have relationships to the point where I think I'm going slightly mad because of it.
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