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bald and fearing the future

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tryingtostaypositive:
Thanks for the responses.
I do agree confidence can be everything from voice tonality to dress sense and most importantly, just being sure of oneself. 
My point was that in general, although women will pretend the bald head doesn't bother them, many are bothered by it.  Being on these dating apps and websites are hard work and even more so when you've got no hair.  There are guys on here too who will try and ignore the obvious fact that many women will be put off by a bald head.  Of course if you ask these women they will say otherwise in order to be polite and not appear shallow.  It's the same for us when it comes to what we find attractive in women, generally speaking.  In the same way, there'll be guys who like their women larger and thicker but for most, it's the slim, slender, proportionate type. 

The only exception to this is, of course, if you are genuinely a good looking guy and the bald look does suit you.  Even then though, you're still behind the men who are equally good looking but with a full head of hair. 

Magoo:
It apparent your not happy with what nature has dealt you. What would you like for this forum to do.You seem to know all the normal pat answers.There not much else we can suggest. Get out there and keep trying ,life will surprise you . Giving up and felling sorry is not the answer. Yes we all have self doubts when dating , but keep trying , what other choices do we have. Only if you give up are a sure loser.

AJ Q-Ball:

--- Quote from: Tyler on August 07, 2017, 12:47:57 AM ---I agree with what AJ and the other two posters said. If you're not having success with women, then it's likely how you interact with them, not your hair style. I have a shaved head and now only have one leg. Because of the way I carry myself, usually positive with a smile, I get a log of attention from women.

--- End quote ---

Thank you Tyler. As I've said in another post, I'm just now finding out about all that has happened to you this year and I'm very sorry. In spite of all the circumstances it seems you're making the best of everything and that's good.

tryingtostaypositive: Like Magoo said, it's obvious you're not happy. Concerning the quote "You're still behind the men who are equally good looking but with a full head of hair", not in my case man. Whenever I walk into a room, I make my presence known and make it apparent that I'm the absolute best man in there and that no other man is going to overpower me in getting what I want if it's up for grabs. Along the lines of what I said in my previous post, if a girl is not interested in a guy just because he has his head shaved bald, then she is not worthy to be a potential dating partner whatsoever. The bald head can actually be a good tool when it comes to weeding out shallow females for whenever they may come along. Did you ever think about it that way? Personally, I've never run into any woman put off by my baldness. I would be able to sense it if I did by their vibes and body language. Also like what I said before, it depends on your mindset.

tryingtostaypositive:
Hey AQT, have you tried dating websites/apps?  What's it been like on them for you?

Tyler:
Here's a video I just did on what women think of bald guys:

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