Confidence and Success > How to Build Confidence
Just seeking more advice, about feel and looks.
j_nel_2003:
Thanks again guys, I guess j was just hoping for some examples to help, you guys do rock, and I hope to be as confident as you guys, you wouldn't beleive it but up til just this march ish, I was a very confident guy, this hit me really hard I guess.
j_nel_2003:
Sorry guys to revive this thread, but my days with hair are numbered and I'm just scared again. That valley on the top side right of my head still scares me. So if anybody has an example it would be a ton of help for me. Here's a pic of my side profile of where the valley is. I know I still have hair here but this shows you how big my head is. It's pretty deep. Any help is again appreciated and I know I'm starting to get annoying, but you guys seem to help me when I'm down about this, so thanks in advance
j_nel_2003:
Here's another photo, opionions, thanks again
Cave Dweller:
You look fine to me.
We all tend to be our own worst critics. My head is flat at the back and I worried that it would look silly when I shaved. Other guys state that they worry their heads are too round. In the end, we discover that if anyone else actually notices an imperfection (usually no one does) they don't care and take it as just another aspect of our appearance like the shape of our nose and ears.
I am attaching an old avatar. It shows how my skull bulges out just above the ears. When I pointed that out to my wife, she told me I was being far too self conscious.
Once you shave, you will be amazed at how fast all the anxiety you are feeling right now will go away.
j_nel_2003:
Thanks cavedweller, I've read alot of your comments on other posts and I always enjoy what you have to say, I wish I could be more confident in all this, I really want to shave it and have it turn out that this crevice or valley isn't a big deal, but I just can't see it not standing out, but soon I won't have a choice, but yah my big head bothers me too but in all honesty, it's about right for my body size, but still doesn't mean it's not big, but again thanks, and thanks for the example pic!!
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