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A675:
Well you never really had true confidence to begin with. It was all just based on the acceptance of others and now that you feel that acceptance is gone so is your confidence. Most people are like that though and very few people actually have real confidence.


22 is not too young to shave your head. It doesn't matter if you're 22 or if you're 32.. it still fucks with your confidence. Even if you look good with a shaven head.....  it'll still mess with your confidence..  balding sucks plain and simple.... don't let these guys on here fool you.. none of them are shaving their heads because they love it.. they're doing it because they went bald.. if they could press a button and grow all their hair back - they'd all press that button 10 times..... but if that's the only thing you need to worry about then there's really not much to complain about.

But here are your options..

Razor shave it...
Buzz it to like 1/16'th...
Get scalp micro pigmentation done which basically just replicates the shadow of full head of shaven hair so that you don't look "bald". You'll just look like you want it that way.
Get a hair transplant.  - this one is not recommended unless you have very little hair loss.
Wear a hair piece - I personally would never do this but I have seen videos on you tube of guys as young as you wearing one and they are completely undetectable these days.

Out of all the solutions available to try to actually "fix it" though I would say scalp micro pigmentation is the best option.

Or like Joe Rogan says.. you could just leave it the f**k alone and let it be what it is. 



and you're most likely going to need some facial hair. very few guys can get away with a clean shaven face and a bald shaven head at the same time because you'll just end up look like a balloon. Even with a full head of hair facial hair makes guys look better anyway. It ads a lot of character to your face and makes you look tougher and more mature.. with a shaven head its even more important because it ads that character that you lost by not having hair and also draws attention away from your head..   and its been proven that females find guys with stubble more attractive than clean shaven faces.

I started losing my hair when I was around 26... luckily for me most of my hair loss was only at the very top of my head. My hair goes up high on the sides and wraps a bit over the top and fairly high in the back.. I just keep it buzzed really short because it still frames my face with a light beard / goatee. I don't like that stereotypical beard with clean shaven head bald guy look. I mean you're bald either way.. you're not fooling anyone by shaving your head so what's the point of looking like a skin head.

There's no guide to shaving your head.. put shaving cream on your head... go in the shower... and shave it.

And if you need a confidence booster or just some fun.. go to Thailand for 2 weeks...


I'm leaving in September. ;)



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