You've got to do what makes you happy, not what you think is attractive or appealing to others. I feel more myself now that I don't have hair. Why, I don't know, but I don't really care. It just works for me. That may be some guy isn't attracted to me. Oh well. C'est la vie. I have to live with myself, not anyone else. And, yes, I tend to agree with the idea that being confident about and content with how you look is readily apparent and desirable to other single people.