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Sir Harry:
Welcome! You're among friends here.....feel free to come and vent anytime you need to. We're here to help in any way we can.

geeman:
some good advice already given... shaved/bald seems to be accepted nowadays.... especially on younger guys.... most look badass.... making the transition is the tough bit.... I'm guessing you want to be accepted for you.... with a shaved or buzzed head.... well... you can't get there from here.... you have to complete the journey.... that means DITCHING THE HAT OF DOOM! very little will happen... the ground won't shake... lightening won't strike... and the seas wont flood inland... (ok... this may happen but you losing your hat won't be the cause) sure you may get the odd comment, but they will cease pretty soon... and you without a hat, will be the "norm" longer you leave it.... the bigger deal you'll turn it into.... though I'm sure you realise, it's just you with the issue.... I hate to break it to you.... but no one really cares if you wear a hat or not.... if you always wore a blue jumper, like every day.... and you suddenly wore a red one... people would comment.... we're kinda programmed that way.... try it... the sooner you do... the sooner you can thank us and say those immortal words.... "why did I wait so long"

Harry Bringle:
Did u consult with any dermatologist?If not,do it soon.

YoungSlyBaldGuy:
It's hard not to worry about what others think, but that's the only way to really live life. Own who you are. If people don't accept you for who you are and what you look like, don't worry about them - plenty of others will accept you.

When I started shaving my head, I completely changed my perspective on life. I had nothing left to hide. I was going to dance on the dance floor how I wanted, no matter if anyone else was dancing or not.

I was going to go up to the cute girls and ask them to dance and get their numbers.

I was going to choose to be happy with who I am and not be ashamed to get joy from all the simple things in life.

And I am. You've got to make the conscious decision to love life. It's easy to get stuck in a rut of despair.

Be you, and the rest will fall into place.

 O0

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