I have tried numerous times to grow a goat but I cant get the good look like all you mugs have.
My facial hair is still more fuzz than whisker
Trying to persevere through the growing-in stage is tough, but it's worth trying. It might not ever get to where you want it, but you'll never know if you don't try. I tried several times myself and never made it much past a week, because I just couldn't stand how sloppy I looked while it was growing in. And it's worse with red/blond hair, because it looks patchy while it's growing in, not like dark hair where you can basically see the outline the whole time.
Finally, two years ago, I starting growing the goat again and forced myself to adhere to the 30-day-rule, whether I wanted to or not -- just like I did when I finally went sly full-time (also after several aborted attempts). In the end, I was glad I did. I kept it for about two months and then for some reason decided to shave it off -- which I instantly regretted. I grew it back and have not seen my chin or upper lip since -- and have no plans to.
The nice thing about growing facial hair is that it's instantly reversible should you decide you don't like it.