Will girls like me if im bald

[master91]

Hi everyone,  im new to slybaldguys. I have not lost my hair completely yet but its really bad if i grow it out so i buzz it to a .5 on the sides and 1 on top. for. I really like this girl a lot, since last year. I asked her out twice and got rejected. I have learn to accept the fact that things may not ever go beyond friendship but at the same time i don't ever lose hope because i really care about her and i just want to be the one for her. Anyways, the second time i felt i got rejected is because i was balding. Is it because im balding that she may not want me? Keep in mind im 22 years old and the girl is 20. She also asked me when am i going to grow my hair again or wil i keep it buzzed for good? I just shrugged it of by saying im gonna keep it buzzed till it gets cold. Should i move on or should i just i keep trying? Thank you guys.

PS: I reposted it this on this subject board because the other one i posted it on was like and introduction board. Sorry about that thanks again guys

[Hingatao]

IMHO, pushing to get someone who's already rejected you twice could be a mistake since you run the risk of pushing her out of your life altogether. If I were you, I'd move on but keep the lines of communication open in case she changes her mind. There is absolutely nothing wrong with having her as "just a friend" instead of as a partner. Btw, if she rejected you because of your hair, that's her loss not yours. Any girl worth having won't care about how much hair you have.

[isleepinthebuff]

Be honest with her, if she say " Why don't you grow your hair" Tell her you have it that length because you feel more comfortable because you think your hair is thinning. If she doesn't want to know you, you're better off without.  We all change so what if in the future you or her put on weight, does it mean you'll fall out of love.

At the end of the day we all have things and aspects we're attracted to to. I know girls that won;t date guys with short hair as they only fancy guys with long hair. It's about types. bald doesn't mean ugly, look at Bruce Willis, Chris Daughtry, Jason Statham, Vin Diesel, The Rock - jesus most girls would fancy them - hair ain't an issue. If it is, her loss.

[geeman]

If she liked you before you shaved and then changes her mind, you're better off without her to be honest...if she likes you after, then you're on to a winner my son... sorted

[Sean25]

This sounds exactly like me 5 years ago.  I mean at this point you should be able to tell if she's interested or not and from the sounds of it you should probably move on.  But in terms of women liking you bald, there's no question they will if you're confident.  I had confidence issues at first but after a few months I was back to myself and there is absolutely no problem in the women department.  Confidence in yourself is the key to everything, just don't get cocky.  If you have any questions just shoot me a message

[Laser Man]

We're usually first attracted to someone because of physical features  but develop relationships on other attributes. Some women aren't attracted to balding men, but others are.  It doesn't mean a relationship can't develop, it just means you might have to work much harder at it.

[Ming the Merciless]

Will they like you if you're bald? 

Some will, some won't.  Same as if you had a full head of hair.  As has been often said, "There's no accounting for taste."  Ming finds is hard, for example, to know that are some people who actually like beets.  Amazing!

[Mikekoz13]

If she's more concerned about your hair than who you are as a person it's time to move on.

And I agree with Ming... No beets for me!!!

[Hingatao]

Ming raises a good point - beets are nasty.

[TheSlyBear]

Hmmm, I hate hot beets, but like pickled beets. Go figure.

In any case, yeah, if she was into you, you'd know by now, and the state of your hair would be a non-issue.

[Timmer]

Shave it, ask her out, if she says no, move on.  Life's too short to focus on someone you have to work that hard for.

[bigstosh]

One thing I have learned in life is that no matter what physical attribute you have, some people will like it and some will not.  A person who is worth being with will focus on what's on the inside, not what's on the outside.  As my late boss was fond of saying, "It's like a pie, it's not the crust that matters, it's the filling."

[g_bald]

Ah yes the age-old question.

If you feel better about YOURSELF shaving it, then you should do it, because it will give you a sense of control and satisfaction if you feel good about yourself.

As for your lady-friend, it's hard to say. One thing is you can show pictures of people like Vin Diesel, Bruce Willis, etc. Maybe ask her to go see 'Riddick' with you and ask her what she thinks of his hairstyle. 

To be truthful, it sounds like there are more chances of being friends than anything else, but then again, you know your situation best and the type of bond you have. Showing self-confidence will certainly show much more than a shiny dome to someone who's looking past your hairstyle and inside where YOU reside. The most important thing is to believe in yourself and do what you know is right and you will find a new world opening up.

Hopefully your dreams will come true.