Hi there, I did it because my hair loss trapped me in a corner. To do it because you want to takes guts! And you look great with no hair! I think even better. You have the head for it.
Thanks! My hair has been progressively thinning in the middle over the past couple of years, but more rapidly this year. Every day its another bunch of hair in the sync after a comb. I picked up some finasteride (like Propecia) last August, but just couldn't bring myself to take the pills. Who knows what the long term side effects may be, you know, and all for aesthetic?
Yet I had all the usual fears - hair loss, or going bald would impede my success, love life, you name it I was thinking about it and moaning about it. I'm a pretty confident and typically rational guy, but thinking about this every check in the mirror was really starting to get me down. The other morning I woke up, saw a handful of hairs on my pillow and began brewing up negativity again. Finally, I looked over at my girlfriend and said "Today's the day. Lets head out and buy the clippers.", as I was tired of my own self loathing for "my situation".
I thought even if this looks terrible, at least I'm taking action and can stop brooding on about it in my mind. Being worried about eventually balding in the middle in a few years time, why not just fast forward and find out what all the fuss is about today?
Working up the courage to start the clippers up was tough, and I was expecting to be completely horrified by the results. But as the hair began to hit the floor, I was so surprised by how GREAT it felt. My immediate next thought - why didn't I do this sooner? All that brooding in the last year and a half, solved in 10 minutes yesterday afternoon. Not only that but I
prefer this look.
Hey, Rasakn, Very nice. A full head of hair and you've discovered the freedom of a bald head! I'm there with you. We call it BBC (bald by choice). You rock the look. I can feel your enthusiasm. I was there a few months ago. I'll tell you it just gets better.
I never shaved anything for 30 years (full beard, full head of hair). Then gave bald a try. I love shaving my head nearly daily. The smooth dome is a great look and feel. Keep it up. share your story again and again.
Thanks, mrzed. I was curious what BBC stood for and I think you have a slick look, too.
I also read through many posts on these forums prior to taking the plunge. Some of these definitely changed my way of thinking and gave me that extra bit of comfort I needed to make it happen. The forum has shown me that its not unusual, crazy, wrong (insert oh my gosh what have you done to your hair word here) to try this. If you don't like what you see, just wait awhile... it grows back like magic!