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how to gain confidence?
Ray Ray:
Hey A_D
i can completely understand where your coming from being young myself (20) i had that point where my confidence was right through the floor, and i was terrified of shaving my hair fully off
But the end of the day my friend, hair isnt everything, it doesnt make you the person you are, you can let your personality shine. And if someone makes a sarky,mean comment well they aren't worth bothering with :)
The only thing that can increase your confidence is you accepting the way your hair is, by accepting it yourself you will radiate confidence to the world an people will pick up on your confidence :)
And i agree with the others that bald would suit you
Being sly is awesome with the ladies as well ;)
Accepted:
from experience (i'm 21).. what I can tell you is for the first 30-60 you will be very conscious of the look and feel shy, not want to socialize etc... but in time it's just something you get used to... you really will become so accustomed to the new look that you'll forget what you used to look like and sometimes even look back at a photo and think 'wow i remember how much life used to suck when I was so paranoid about some dead cells on my head' and hardly believe that that picture is actually yours..
so basically, shave it off and know and accept the fact that it will be weird and people might react negatively but that's only coz they aren't used to it;... give it some time and you'll be just fine. life goes on...
the first time my friends saw me they asked what? why? are you crazy? you can't be balding at this young age, you're tripping... etc etc... but that was maybe one or 2 times and now it never comes up and i can be myself coz i have nothing to hide and things are getting back to normal...
theman:
Good Men !!! O0 8)
Sir Harry:
--- Quote from: A_D on November 07, 2012, 08:51:01 AM ---cheers guys! its really good to know people are going through the same feelings as i am.
I went for a no.2 today, I like it like this and not sure if i need to go all out just yet.
I definitely feel so much better just baring all without trying to hide the fact im loosing it. it actually looks less noticeable than when it was longer.
I have had a few of the "why dont you grow it back" at which point i feel like slapping them across the face and/or stealing their hair! this doesn't help but its inevitable I guess... surprising to me though, women dont seem to run away screaming at the sight of my head. so thats a plus :D
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You're going to run into the occasional smart ash....but as I have said many times: Don't entertain stupidity, let stupidity entertain you. Stay strong, man!
theman:
--- Quote from: SlySirHarry12 on November 09, 2012, 02:24:22 AM ---
--- Quote from: A_D on November 07, 2012, 08:51:01 AM ---cheers guys! its really good to know people are going through the same feelings as i am.
I went for a no.2 today, I like it like this and not sure if i need to go all out just yet.
I definitely feel so much better just baring all without trying to hide the fact im loosing it. it actually looks less noticeable than when it was longer.
I have had a few of the "why dont you grow it back" at which point i feel like slapping them across the face and/or stealing their hair! this doesn't help but its inevitable I guess... surprising to me though, women dont seem to run away screaming at the sight of my head. so thats a plus :D
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You're going to run into the occasional smart ash....but as I have said many times: Don't entertain stupidity, let stupidity entertain you. Stay strong, man!
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Ditto ! 8)
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