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wonderer:
My aunt is bald -completely bald .She lost all of her hairs after death of her husband(during the war here in Croatia),now she is wearing a wig ,but I really don't see why ...She wasn't wearing a wig for a years and I didn't even noticed that she wasn't "strange" in any way.I admire her thou ,she was amputated during the war by a grenade shell so- she also has only one leg and she is a normal person after all that has happened to her ...hair is just a hair ,what is important is HEALTH ,if you don't have that then you have noting !Now my mother is on heart transplant list and all we have now is HOPE so i say -the hell with a hair !
wonderer:
So all I wanted to say is- one should take care for his/her hair(hair loss can be a sign of illness ), but everyone should keep in mind this -hair loss is not the worst thing in the world! I would gladly date a bald woman (bald woman can be sexy )-rather than woman with a beautiful hair and face but with no soul....
Slynito:
--- Quote from: wonderer on September 11, 2012, 02:16:01 AM ---So all I wanted to say is- one should take care for his/her hair(hair loss can be a sign of illness ), but everyone should keep in mind this -hair loss is not the worst thing in the world! I would gladly date a bald woman (bald woman can be sexy )-rather than woman with a beautiful hair and face but with no soul....
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I can't disagree with those words, wonderer. No hair loss is not anything to worry about and indeed women look pretty and sexy shaved.
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gutsygirl:
Just wanted, as a slygal, to say THANKS to all the supportive guys. I don't mind if guys don't like the shaved look on the ladies, but it's nice to meet men who look want to go deeper than skin-deep when determining if a woman is "their type".
And yes, I think it does take significant "guts" for a woman to go shiny. ^-^ After all, we tend to get difficult questions like "Do you have cancer? (no) Are you a lesbian? (no) What political statement are you trying to make? (none) Did you do this for someone who has cancer? (no)" Family and friends may disapprove. :/O So a woman really has to be confident in who she is and feel assured that her value is not rooted in her ...uhm...roots! O0 (excuse the pun) I've taken TONS of family flack. My friends either like the look or hate it; I've not yet met anyone who is "on the fence" about it. I even had a friend ask me "Are you part of the KKK?!" ::)
Anyways, that's my personal perspective. Seems, from asking my friends, like most guys don't like the sly look on women, but so many women deep down admire it and think it's "gutsy" to go hairless and often come up to me and say, "Oh wow! I wish I could do that and look good!! It really suits you!"
Because of the strong reactions I receive, there are definitely times I wear something on my head. Buffs are my favorite head coverings. I wear these or fedoras :popo in church or to more formal events where a woman with a bald head might be especially ....distracting. And I always carry a Buff in my purse just in case. ;) Around my home and apartment, I go bald and out at the grocery store and places like that I feel fine going bald. Otherwise, I'm at least more cautious but it doesn't necessarily mean I'm going to put on a hat. I'm lucky in that I do love hats. :)
Ok, I'm blabbering (because that's what women do). Good night! :D
gutsygirl:
I also use a wheelchair and other ambulatory aids, so I'm used to people staring at me. Haha. I just realized my transition to Sly probably wasn't as hard as it is for most other women because of this. The don't stare at me any more because of my bald head than they did because of my wheelchair, so...
I saw in another post that a guy had mentioned it's kinda unfair that the women are expected to cover it up if they are dealing with hair loss, especially if their looks aren't especially conducive to the Sly life. I'd say this is a true observation. In my case, one thing I've found I really DO enjoy about being Sly, however, is that I can wear so many different pretty scarves that coordinate well with my outfits! It's cool to be able to "change your hair color" depending on your mood or outfit by adding a scarf or other hat/head covering. I've been quickly adding to my collection of scarves, turbans, fedoras, cowgirl hats, etc because I love how just changing my headwear immediately changes my whole outfit! :D Girls like to accessorize. ;)
Gutsy Girl
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