Speaking as a Proud Unkle of three, its never 2-2, you forget the support staff; Grandmas' always want time with their grand babies, same with unkles and aunts and Grand dads... But I swear, I have never seen anyone more excited/happy to change a dirty smelly diaper than my mother was with my nephew... I mean, she would come to visit, and it became "Me & Baby Time", and I am not the first of the rest of the support staff that got Ran Down/Smacked Down/Beat Down for trying to get time when she was around.
Best Advice: I am a fan of big families... 4-5 is what I am going to shoot for when it comes to that "time" in my life; the key to that equation: LIVE CLOSE TO MOM/GRANDMA!!!