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what am I doing wrong?

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tomgallagher:
Maybe you are trying too hard. You can't micro manage it. Just relax and go with the flow and don't try so hard and as Tyler says, don't be too nice. The girl's seem to like a guy that comes across as a guy.

baldjoeg:
Great advice given here. HJust relax. The right one will come a long sooner tahn You know it. Enjoy being young , foot loose and fanccy free for now.

I wish You the best of luck.

 :)

Double Diablo:
You are probably trying too hard.  You go on a date and she see's you going all over the place.  Do not try to be someone you are not.  The person you are pretending to be might be the one that wins the girl and then what?  You will be stuck.  Just be yourself.  Stick to your own interests and the girls that hang around what you like to do.

 My son in law is a great example.  He loves airsoft.  He would date but would always keep his enthusiasm for Airsoft to himself.  He had short unsuccessful relationships.  He met my daughter at an Airsoft Tournament.  She is as crazy about Airsoft as he is.  She was having trouble dating for the same reason.  Couldn't find anyone who would share with her what she loved so much.

I was single for a long time after my ex went to prison.  I love horses, motorcycles and my dog is stayin' no matter what the woman says.  I stuck to what I liked and a girl who loves horses, bikes and dogs came along.

MunkyMunk:
Something you are revealing on the dates is something that scares them off. You're putting up some kind of red flags if this is happening to you so consistently.

You may be coming across as too nice, or you may come across as an a$$hole once you let your guard down.

Whatever it is, it's something that you're not showing your close female friends.

Do you get into talking politics when you're on a date? Do you trash-talk your exes? Complain about work? Act rude to waitstaff? Come across as too needy? Too aloof?

Until some woman is frank enough to tell you, only you can figure this out.

Sly Red:
Sorry to be a downer here guys, but this post is four years old and the IP has not been active for four years, so it's a bit of a moot point.

Red

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