Discussions About Being Bald > To be or not be...Bald
Thinking of Hair Club For Men? Maybe this will change your mind...
Tyler:
This is a post by Sooner Steve in another thread, but it's such a great post it deserves to be it's own topic!
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I know where you are. I wore a "system" for 23 years from age 20 to 43. I was a slave to it. I know your fear. I was very scared and worried about what everyone would say. I was sure THEY would be shocked when I shaved it clean.
Turns out, I WAS THE ONE WHO WAS SHOCKED.
I was shocked to learn that I had not been fooling anyone with my "system".
I was shocked to learn that most everyone had wanted me to get rid of it for years.
I was shocked to learn that no one cared that I did not have hair.
I was shocked to learn that I felt bether about myself once I got rid of the "system."
I was shocked to learn that my self confidence shot straight through the roof.
I was shocked to learn that my hair, or the lack thereof, did not define me.
I was shocked to learn that I was happier without it.
I also had a huge plan of losing the system, getting a tan on vacation, etc. I discussed it with my wife. She was on board. I talked to my kids - age 10 & 14. I had a plan. I was ready. Then my 10 year old said "Dad, why don't you just go Friday to the barber, cut what's left and go to work on Monday." Sounded like a great idea and that is what I did. Even took him with me.
We still laugh about my elaborate plan to go SLY and how a 10 year old was smarter dear ol' dad and had a better plan.
I realize this is a long post but want you guys to know I understand where you are. These guys on here were WONDERFUL help to me. They gave me the same advice they are giving you.
TRUST ME - JUST DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Slynito:
Very powerful, Tyler. Thanx! O0
tomgallagher:
Good for him, good for you T.
Paul the Headblader:
Nice-y :)
Timmer:
I'm so glad I never deluded myself with rugs plugs or drugs. Always a good reminder.
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