Your not alone man, I'm 19 years old and there's lots of people that come on this forums with problems of balding between the ages of 15-19. So there's quite a few young guys who are affected by this. I know you say you don't want to be the bald guy, but unless your condition reverses your going to be. It's your choice if you want to look like a grandfather or a hot bald dude. Don't be like me and spend a year looking at your hair analyzing it from every direction wishing, praying, and hoping that something would change that it was all just a bad dream. I know what you mean people were taking a liking to me with hair to, with my ego you'd have thought I had it made. You know what though people have taken a liking to the bald me to. It's all about how you represent yourself and the confidence you have. Trust me there gonna like you with a shaved alot more than old man bald. In a perfect world there would be no such thing as baldness, but we don't live in a perfect world. Just accept it and move on man you'll be alot happier you did. An hey atleast you got light blonde hair so you should depending on your skin tone be shadowless.