The same answer you get to the question, "How do I get to Carnegie Hall?" Practice, practice, practice. Thirty days gets you fairly far along the road, but now you're going to find other stuff, gels, creams, etc, new equipment, so that ultimately by trial and error you'll find, as Marcia Ball says, "The right tool for the job." It will come, try new ideas, look over the routine threads, lots of good stuff in there. And, most importantly enjoy the freedom, now it's just a quest for perfection.