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Tyler:
Do any of you guys that completed the 30 day rule have any tips for the guys that's about to embark on his journey?

PopeyeRay:
Well it will be 30 days for me in about a week, a little less. But I have to say I'm more confident now. I'm use to of it, and actually love to shave the dome. I take pride in managing it, making sure it's just right.
I guess one tip I can give is to keep coming to these boards. The guys here are really supportive and you find yourself becoming friends and enjoying talking to them. It's an excellent support group. Another tip I would say is look in the mirror & tell yourself how good you look Sly. Take pride in shaving, and managing the Slyness. Its like a new found love for enjoying yourself.  Guys here have said many times, the more confidence you have in yourself, the more it shows, and it really does tend to rub off on others around you. They too will find you a confident and great looking guy.

zzaapp:

--- Quote from: Tyler on March 02, 2010, 11:21:03 PM ---Do any of you guys that completed the 30 day rule have any tips for the guys that's about to embark on his journey?

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As Captain Jack Sparrow says, "Its really more of a guideline..."

OK, seriously, 30 days gives you a chance to really try it out and see if "Sly is your Style".  There are three major points IMHO...

First, it lets you personalize a routine for maintaining the look.  To some, that first shave seems like a pretty long and intricate process.  You need some time to get into the swing of it and learn that maintaining the look seems to take less effort as you get used to it.

Second, It exposes you to most of your social and business contacts multiple times.  This allows you to realize that after an initial comment most people just accept it and life goes on.

Third, it lets you get comfortable with yourself, and learn that unless you look in a mirror or touch your head, life is pretty much like it was before.

pdxtodd:
Great question Tyler,  I can tell you from my own experience:

1)  The faster you take that step to sly the better off you'll be.  So many of us agonized for weeks, months, years over our hair loss and the moment we finished shaving it all off we all go -- dang I wish I had done that years ago.
2)  Yes you look different.   You may experience shock for the first two weeks after shaving your head -- but that will quickly turn to awe.  When I walked past the mirror I was in total shock over the change in my look (I wore a hairpiece so I went from a full head of fur to sly). 
3)  Don't ask people if they like your new look - TELL them how awesome it feels and how much you love it.  People's opinions are shaped by how you react. 
4)  Walk tall, don't slump, don't cower, think Bruce Willis kicking rear in one of his movies.  You now have the power -- you are in control.  Act like you're in control
5)  Look people straight in the eyes - show that you're confident in your new look.   Don't act like you're ashamed. 
6)  Help a brother out.  You'll surely see other guys with horseshoes that are eyeing your skullet.  Smile and hand them your SBG business card.
7)  Look around - you're not alone.   On Thursday I was standing in line for lunch and looked around.  Of the 10 guys who were in the cafe - four of us were sly. 
8)  Its just freakin hair.  Hair doesn't define who you are - although fear, agony, depression, and hiding behind your hairloss does!   The quicker you take that step the quicker you're going to feel freedom and happiness.
9)  Listen to the guys on the forum.  We all say the same thing -- its a huge positive change. 
10)  Pick up a pair of clippers at WalMart, Walgreens, CVS, or elsewhere.   Its simple to buzz your hair down with no guard.  It takes about 3 minutes to do the job and you're there.   Sure you can start with a #3, #2, #1 guard to transition to sly -- but until you take the step to #0 and a blade you won't understand the freedom.   So skip the numbers in between and go for the blade.
11)  Share your success stories with the guys on the board.  The more positive stories the better.  Looking back over the past 6 months -- there's only been a couple of "oh no why did I do it" stories and interestingly enough -- those stories tend to be due to someone making a negative comment.  See Item 3 above to avert those issues.
12)  Ask for help and encouragement.  The guys who actively participate here are awesome.  If it wasn't for SBG I'd still be shelling out hundreds of dollars a month on a piece of fur - still feeling terrible about myself - agonizing over my "hair".   After nearly 4 months of "no hair" I can honestly say that I haven't been happier about my looks since high school.   Having a shaved head isn't even something that I think about -- it feels natural, looks natural, and other than women walking up and telling me how hot they think guys with shaved heads look and wanting to rub it - its just normal!

Now -- man up -- grab a blade -- take care of business -- get on with your life.   

-Doug-:
Todd, great post! #3 is my favorite. I haven't once asked people if they like my look. I don't care if they don't like it. That being said, I had nothing but positive comments/reactions.

It's all about how you present/project yourself, IMHO. If you are confident in you new look it will show and people will most likely react positively.

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