I have found that two elements are necessary for me to get a shave that looks and feels close:
1) Softening the hair
2) Lubricating the skin
To this end I wash my head with, in my case, Old Spice Hair and Body Wash with conditioner. I use a Gillette nylon scrubber to really cleanse the skin. The conditioner seems to stay on the skin even after a rinse. Following this I use Shave Secret Oil (WalMart) while the dome is still wet and then on top of this I use either Head Slick or King of Shaves gel. I let this sit for a few minutes before I get to work with the Head Blade. I shave against the grain with the HB and then touch up any areas where I can feel stubble with the M5 Magnum. After shaving I use an exfoliator, Equate from WalMart IMO works just as well as St. Ives. I get a nice shiny and smooth dome this way.