Author Topic: Stupid missed opportunity  (Read 6702 times)

Bald_freak

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Re: Stupid missed opportunity
« Reply #15 on: November 25, 2009, 07:05:45 PM »
I went through that dude n screwed it up man. Beat myself up over a co worker for months...thought she was into me but wasn't sure. Then she left. Found out recently that she was totally friggin nuts about me. were both involved now. But she informed me that if i would of made any sort of move she'd been all over me. Moral of the story: pull your kiwis outta your throat and go for it man! you only live once. Make us proud son!

Offline TheBaldAndBeautiful

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Re: Stupid missed opportunity
« Reply #16 on: March 19, 2010, 01:50:25 PM »
Hi guys

Just wanted to relieve some frustration. I'm now kicking myself for missing an opportunity. After work today I spent 1 hour talking to a girl at work. I alreay know what some will say, it's messy to date coworkers, but she is not working with me as she is in another lab, but in the same department. Not sure if this still comes under akward if it doesn't work out territory?
Anyhow I really like her and several times this week we have spoken for extended periods of time. I feel a bit stupid as I should have made a move today as it is a Friday and I could have asked to go for a drink at work.
I think she is interested, as to me she seems to show the signs. There is still a niggly part of me that is concerned that how can she like me even though I'm bald at age 23. I know I shouldn't even think about this and that women like confidence but it is just a niggling feeling. I am even suprised at myself to think this way as recently I have felt more comfortable than ever with my appearance.
Anyhow I frustration partly relieved for now. But I guess I should make my move sooner rather than later.     

You're a nice looking guy.  Your approach should be top-notch.  I wouldn't worry.  You have your teeth, legs and everything else.