I went through that dude n screwed it up man. Beat myself up over a co worker for months...thought she was into me but wasn't sure. Then she left. Found out recently that she was totally friggin nuts about me. were both involved now. But she informed me that if i would of made any sort of move she'd been all over me. Moral of the story: pull your kiwis outta your throat and go for it man! you only live once. Make us proud son!