Help! I need some advice..

[Antimidas]

Did I mention I had a strong aversion to cameras and mirrors?    THat picture is one reason why.  I hate looking at myself!

A woman at work was trying out her new camera one day and took my picture.  I told her to delete it and her response was "kiss my ass."  My immediate reply was "My lips are not that big."   I spent months refusing to apologize.  After all, I had only commented on my own physical attributes.   

Had I have looked at any of those pictures, I might have made the jump to sly much sooner.  Now it does not look like I am pathetically trying to cover the obvious even though that was never my intent.

[D.A.L.U.I.]

Antimidas, that picture shows that you not only shaved what was left of your hair, but also shaved years off your appearance.
That took guts to post.

[Antimidas]

Thanks SaintC!  Posting it was not easy, but illustrates the point better than anything I could ever write.  If it helps one person see the ridiculousness of fearing a shave, then I did my good deed with it.

[DC]

I have to cosign with crazy.irish.celt.  You can't ask the opinons of others-big mistake bro!  Like Nike, you "just do it".   

In my case, I've always had a full haid and balding in my family was later down the road.  However, I was tired of the hirsute look and got my head shaved first to a #2 and then to a #1.  Currently, I'm "near skin" with less hair than my 16-month old son has!  I know that there will be folk (including my sweetie) who will be shocked at my new look. 

But go for it bro!  Don't ask, don't seek the opinions of non-baldies (or non-buzzies), just do it! 

All the best!